Dream to pay is refers to the physical has experienced after men and women to sleep at night dream of heterosexual sex.aboutA womanRepresentation you don't have to fear is like a dream.

(1) about women themselves

Women fear will also need not worry, do not think that is a "ghost" and worried, uncomfortable, and even fidgety, mental tension and sex apathy, etc.Like the previous when it comes to the letter asked the lady, should face up to their bag all yesterday and today, whether it is used by sexual insults, is still inTo make loveWith serious damage, should be on a permanent severance hard layer of shadow, burden on his back.To make themselves peacefully treat bag yesterday is now attack work, permanent bag bag yesterday let it yesterday!It is important now, shouldn't the bag yesterday with astonishment, don't let the bag yesterday shadow permanent enwrapped the real life.Stick to quit masturbation, should also be frankly talk about this question with her husband.

(2) as a husband

On sex, my husband should be patience and inspiration to the wife, avoid by all means is rude and rough;As a wife should mind broad, longer than in the right attitude towards mental wounds.Should establish close relationship between husband and wife, with the senate apathy, horror and questions about the mind of the wound, etc.Together or sexual idea under physician consultation counselling to heal, don't blindly doctor visits around, spend a lot of, but draw water with a sieve, a drop in the bucket.

Almost everyone had sexual dream.And, by the more the more education people do such a dream.Men in their 20 s, women at the age of 40, often have this dream, just different content.Based on 100 male college students and 100 female college students, the survey found more girls dream of kiss, hug, and * * *;Boys dream of * * *, so commonly known as "woman wet dream dreams, man."Men's dream is a stranger, and women dream of many people is that they are familiar with.

Here are several commonInterpretation of dreams：

Deceptive dream

If the dream of a woman is not your girlfriend or wife, need not guilty for it, it reminds you to your place in the real life.

Dream is not beautiful woman

Young people often do such a dream is to find a man advantage, the advantage of you because she is not beautiful just like her.

Dreams have same-sex behavior

Dream sex object is often related to emotional symbol.Tension, for example, how have you been with a woman, so the dream is actually a kind of comfort to you.You as a man, of course, to learn more about gay people's thoughts and feelings, they are not hard to ponder as the opposite sex.

Dream incest

Have this dream does not mean depravity.Sometimes the relationship tension or relationship with his girlfriend (boyfriend) when in trouble, would do such a dream.Choose a member of the family, because in her (him) there won't be rejected, it will get comfort and touching.This dream reminds us to greater efforts to improve the relationship.

If a man and wife dream/what's going on?

Sleep with the opposite sex.Also called sexual dreams.An unconscious or subconscious mental activity.Most people in the dream to pay feelings in sexual pleasure is given priority to, may also be associated with anxiety, fear, mood, etc.Dream, the more vivid image, the more erotic, imagine sexual behavior with more intense, the physiological and psychological causes of sexual excitement and produce the greater the sexual pleasure, ending with wet dreams and broken dreams.Men often ends with a penis erection and ejaculation;Women are accompanied by vaginal moist, leucorrhea increase.

Will see more at puberty to early marriage, develops in sexual disorder, can't be normal sexual intercourse, and couples separated this three kinds of people.In fact, every married couple and live together, the dream will make this kind of sexual behavior is not easy to produce, because of sexual behavior don't have to be repressed into the unconscious state, completely can get catharsis through sexual intercourse.When sexual desire and impulse, but only to suppress it, may be revealed in the subconscious, so sex requirement and impulses can appear in the dream and dream.

Most scholars believe that dream is a way of masturbation behavior, is a normal physiological and psychological phenomenon, is the body's own adjustment too nervous of a kind of psychological defense mechanism of sexual tension, is also a kind of self protection mechanism.Dream of trigger mechanism, besides sex object is false, the rest is no difference with sexual intercourse.It should be said that the dream is not sick, will not bring harm to the body, in the dream to pay is not tension and anxiety.

Need to point out that some women with neurotic, could reverberate in reality, the dream as a reality, and entails, panics after waking up, pain, sometimes lead to suicide, some still call charges "dream man", it need to scientifically and give explanations and psychological counseling

Dream is a kind of mental and physical performance.V of the "a dream of red mansions" wrote back to qin ke jia baoyu room to rest, dream of "p magic fairy will his sister qing betrothed with him...Drifted off...Children would take up a matter to..."When wake to find that his groin" cold wet ".Is qin ke jia baoyu's niece, according to the seniority, this kind of matter is awake can't also not realistic, but the dream is not bound by ethics.

So, how to correctly treat the dream occurs?First of all should be sure or have mature men and women in the development, a series of changes because of the endocrine system, organ in mature, boy appeared Adam's apple, a deep voice, spermatorrhea, girl breast uplift, menstrual cramps, due to physiological changes, affect the psychological changes, then a dream phenomenon is not surprising.Because no matter male or female then phenomenon will also be made available to the sexual gratification, thereby reducing the psychological pressure of the neutral real life consciousness, so as long as the correct treatment does not interfere with the normal life, work and study.Generally 3 times a month within the dream is a normal phenomenon, but don't panic.But teenagers should not be pornographic novels and TV, movies, to sleep at night should not wear tights, should be empty your bladder before sleep, avoidThe quiltToo much too thick, so that can reduce dreams happen.

Women in the dream also don't have to worry about fear, do not think that is a "ghost" and worried, could not, even fidgety, mental tension and sex apathy, etc.As mentioned before the consultation letter from lady, should face up to their past and present of everything, whether once is sexual abuse, or suffered significant damage in terms of sex, should not be given quells shadow forever, burden on his back.Want to let myself calmly treat things have taken place in the past, a thing of the past let it go forever!It is important now, don't deal with the past has fear, don't let the past with real life forever.Stick to quit masturbation, should also be honest with her husband about the problem.In addition, on the sex life, my husband should be patience and enthusiasm to treat his wife, avoid by all means is rude and brutal;As a wife should be broad-minded, is good at the correct treatment of trauma.Shall establish the close relationship between husband and wife, to discuss sexual cold, fear and relevant problems such as psychological trauma.Or sexual psychological doctor guidance treated together, don't blindly doctor visits around, spend a lot of, but draw water with a sieve, to no avail

We recently received a letter from a woman is married, she said: "at the age of eight or nine, a vaguely felt someone touch her clitoris in a dream, that is a handsome man, for when she woke up, he went away.Then she tried to touch her clitoris, then formed the masturbation habit, adult has quit masturbation, but in recent years are often dreamed that dream of man visiting and before delivery, since this year more frequently, just dream to pay once a few days, the next day feeling lumbar acid, leg soft, weakness of limbs.For her husband's sex requirement, disgusted and menstrual disorders, general malaise and various' neurasthenia symptoms."The woman asked, "does this with ghost dream?What the dream to pay is how to return a responsibility?"

Dream to pay is refers to the physiological mature men and women of the night to sleep after the dream of heterosexual sex.

Physically young unmarried have mature, because of the opposite sex have a psychological sense of curiosity, like during the day a man saw a very beautiful lady or a woman to see a handsome young man, he (she) think that this is his dream of Snow White (prince charming), with her (him) form a partner for life, according to the how happy and happy, so highly excited the brain cortex.But during the day can only imagine, cannot achieve.If the excitement once in a very long while can't calm all day, so at night to sleep, because of the cerebral cortex and spinal cord central in the excited state for a long time, will dream of sexual intercourse with the opposite sex.The opposite sex is a particular object of him or her.The cerebral cortex electrophysiological phenomenon is that people often say "thought, night dream".

Men's and women's relationship was clear, and also recognized by colleagues around, but only relationships between men and women, in has not officiallyTo get marriedOr no cohabitation, before their daytime was like peas and carrots, togetherHave a meal, shopping, watching movies, travel, even passionately kissing and hugging, have a kind of sexual desire, is a kind of physiological instinct, is developed to a certain degree of emotions.Although they will soon to formally marry and become husband and wife, but the reality is not to have sex.Sexual activity during the day under the control of the cerebral cortex, can only be brooding, but at night to sleep, a decrease in the control of the brain, so often dream of love and lovers to the thick and sexual intercourse.According to the survey many young men and women will marry this dream/phenomenon happens.

Married men and women after marriage relationship is good, the harmonious sex life, but with the passage of time, such as the female fertility after transferring main focus to raising children, in addition to work, busy housework, the sex life have interest, but the man there is a strong requirement and his wife cannot satisfy, even refused to sexual intercourse, the man had to endure, because of the "energy" excess dream at night, the man will occur and ejaculation.Another kind of circumstance is the couple between a variety of reasons such as a party or on a business trip abroad temporarily, respectively, over time, due to the thoughts of love, dreams and love a warm hug, intoxicating kissing, when highly excited or a dream.

Can cause a person to do some kind of dream is various: personal physical and mental status, health status, social backgrounds, the dream in front of the stimulus as well as individual apiration desire, etc.Often associated with sexual dreams may have the following reasons:

First is the body, the doctor of traditional Chinese medicine thinks: "guest to Yin, the dream".Yin is insufficient, the dream to drain essence, much dream of coition rite.

Second, often watch pornography or yellow video will strongly stimulate the brain cortex, still play a leading role in this exciting night focal, so in a dream.

A woman is eager topregnancyMay be a dream, the monastery nun long-term exposure to sexual repression may dream and sexual intercourse "devil".

Moreover, sex dreams also have some relationship with food and medicine.As more Chinese chives, shrimp for dinner, carp, etc., or bedtime ate deer antler, hippocampus, such as an aphrodisiac, may be associated with sexual dreams.

Spermatorrhea also belongs to a kind of sex dream state.The experience of most adult male ejaculation had a dream.In general, men, of 15 or 16 sexually mature period, the penis can erect, can discharge semen, seminal fluid is usually occurs in the dream state.First try having sex in a dream of red mansions "jia baoyu feeling" about the plot of jia baoyu first spermatorrhea.

A few failed to recall the dream scene after spermatorrhea, most people may recall the dream scene after spermatorrhea.The content of the dream is always related to contact with the opposite sex, such as sexual intercourse with the opposite sex, or touching the body of heterosexual, or appreciate beauty the opposite sex, or just talk to the opposite sex.When the dreamer when excited, will happen ejaculation action, accompanied by a sexual pleasure.Usually, the dreamer will wake up after ejaculation.Seminal emission can be said to be a "sexual intercourse" in a dream.

As the saying goes: "pure full since the spill.When sperm after filling, semen stored in the body is overmuch, enhanced sexual excitement, if have any other stimulus, such as the dream of the opposite sex, bedding, underwear is too tight and other mental and nerve compression effect, which may be spermatorrhea.

That the ancient Chinese physicians believe that the young guys, long time no sex, and occasional spermatorrhea, morbid.Commonly so spermatorrhea will neither affect health, nor a moral problem.

If spermatorrhea very frequent, two days, then it's not normal.Frequent sex dreams and spermatorrhea control method is:

1. Pay attention to mental health, always try to keep relaxed, happy mood, eliminate noise and abstinent, cultivating their own cheerful, optimistic, strong character.

2. Don't too full to eat at night, bedding shoulds not be too much, your feet should not disappear too warm.

3. Participate in style and normal social activities.

4. If the frequency of the spermatorrhea affect mental and health, should be checked to the hospital, the drug therapy, acupuncture, massage, can have a satisfactory curative effect.