Everybody wants to change the fate, don't want to change the fate of the people I'm afraid very few, because life has defects, all want to make your life more happy, more harmonious environment.Is the so-called happy life and harmonious society, we and the government's ideal is consistent.In order to the ideal, everyone is in constant struggle.But really know what is the fate, how to change the fate of people rarely.

A, what is called fate?

On the Internet, search, parsing a lot about fate, some said fate means things have a reservation, a trajectory of a pattern, and solutions for the rules between time and space.The uniqueness of fate, it is time and irreversible.- the law of human destiny.The nature of fate, coincidence with the combination of coincidence, the world, and so on.

The old saying: life by day, by himself.Said 'life is born, and' shipped '?Is a man's life's journey.This sentence is also expounded, oneself hold can only be shipped, is their own way how to go, and inherent talent and condition is not to change, one is the fate.

We use the simplest words to explain, fate is the path of life.Because there is a path in life, such as physical, for exampleGo to schoolWork baby home, and so on.Generally people are necessary.The longer the road, behind is relatively greater uncertainty.So, young people do not believe destiny, older, more letters.But not young life trajectory is much older than older people change, also is not necessarily so.Man was born, his family environment, social environment will give his life, set the tone.Most people have a certain age looking back to the road, even if there are unexpected things, that is understandable.Unexpectedly just because of our own, lack of awareness of the family and society.Is understandable because later we rediscover yourself, family and society.

Second, the destiny can be changed?

According to what we call, fate is the path of life.Since is a path, you should have a certain inertia, a certain direction.As we all know, in his own lifetime, formed its own character, their own habits.Their own values and way of thinking.These things are very strong inertia, not can change easily.To lose weight, for example;Everyone knows that, as long as eat less and move more, can lose weight.But very few people really can do it.In our life, therefore, the internal inertia is big, not easy to overcome.Is like the earth's gravitational pull in our body, we can only on the earth.To get rid of the earth's gravity, talk easy?But we have no way to get rid of the earth's gravity?Everyone knows the answer.In the same way we inherent inertia is also can be changed.If this inertia is beneficial to our development, is also a great help to our.As for the direction of life, with the social environment, its own values have close relationship.Life is full of crossroads; on the road,Every road is a multiple choice.Only our choice whether conform to the direction of the society, can have its own inertia support accordingly.If all can satisfy the two conditions, we choose to change is easy to implement.

The understanding of the social development direction can be, the key is itself to Ken efforts in this respect.So the key lies in their own fate could change.As the philosophical often say that external cause is through the internal cause.When we have a lot of exclamation force inveterate habit itself is too big, so we won't change.But they don't know habit to come from.Actually our habit is without beginning since its own words and thoughts (collectively referred to as industry) accumulation and precipitation, our industry is due, encounter was fruit:

All have their own industry, inherit their own industry, derived from its own industry, is closely connected with their own industry;Their industry is their refuge.ACTS bad or noble, their lives too low or high.(i.e., all have its industry, inherit its industry, due to the industry, with its body.All beings rely upon its industry.Its bad or noble, its life is also true.)

Therefore, as long as we can dominate their own industry, can dominate his own destiny.Everyone should be responsible for their pain caused by behavior;Everyone can change their behavior to cease the pain.The Buddha once said:

You are your own master

You create your own future.

Third, change the fate of the method

So change the fate of the method is to fundamentally change their actions, speech and thoughts.However, what is the right behavior, words and ideas?

Buddha said:

All their evil mo,

All the good adherence,

Since the net its meaning,

This is the teaching of the enlightened.This is the only way to change the fate of the method.

At the same time, the Buddha has come up with a good knowledge of good and evil can put all of the four methods: any behavior, if it will hurt others, or interfere with the peaceful harmony of others, is a bad behavior, also is the evil;And anything that can help others, peaceful and harmonious behavior, to others is good behavior, that is good.

In particular, to do all their evil mo requested we do the following:

1. The proper words

Speak good must be pure, pure is to be reached by removing impurities, so the first thing to understand, what is not the words of the net is made of.Net words not include: (1), lying, exaggerated, or to conceal the truth;(2), to gossip;(3), backbiting and slander others;(4), vitriolic, pain, and no benefit to the person;(5), meaningless spread rumors, wasting your time and other people.As long as not kick the net to lying, so nature is "words".But language is not only the negative meaning, the Buddha once said: take positive language: speak honest and frank, honest and reliable;Resolve disputes and promote unity.In harmony, harmony as expensive, the tongue can is lotus, create harmonious atmosphere.Words soft and sweet, kind, gentle, polite, appropriate.According to the facts, weigh weight, follow the law, in the proper time to speak.Notes are worth telling, timeliness, reasonable, cautious properly and exciting.

2. Proper behavior

Behavior also must be clean.As "positive words", we must also understand what constitutes an act of not clear, so can only be rid of them.Don't clean the behavior includes (1) to kill;(2) theft;(3) the improper sexual behavior, such as rape or adultery;(4) drinking drugs while thinking trance, don't know what he said or did.As long as to avoid the improper behavior, four did nature is justified and good behaviour.Also, right also is not only a negative concept.The Buddha described line right:

Wars were muted, avoid to harm any life;Full of love, for all favor;Aboveboard, clean living.

For a secular life of ordinary people, to correct language and its method, is to keep the five precepts, namely (a) must abstain from killing living things, (2), theft and (3) quit fornication, (4) quit lying, (5), quit drinking narcotics.The five precepts are the basic requirement of moral behavior.Anyone want to practice the teachings should follow.The major is not must abstain from killing living thingskill, and furthermore, not killing animals."To kill some mosquitoes, etc., it's nothing.

3. The right to make a living

Everyone should have a proper method to make a living."Is life", there are two according to the standard.First of all, to make a living methods can not violate the five precepts, because made the behavior of the five precepts, clearly will bring harm to others;Furthermore, to make a living the method also can not procure the five precepts, because this way, will also bring harm to others.No matter directly or indirectly, we make a living the method should not harm to living beings.So any involves killing industry, whether it is kill people or animals, without a doubt, definitely not is life.Even if killing things others do, however, their only processing and selling animals slaughtered, and its fur, bones, meat, etc., it's still not is life, because in this way, so to make a living by the mistakes of others behavior.Selling alcohol or drug is can make a lot of money, but it is equal to encourage others to alcoholism, drug addiction, even if not their owndrinking, not drugs, still will hurt others;Casino is can obtain sudden huge profits, but all the people who go to gambling, is in hurt yourself;Toxic drugs, arms trafficking weapons, explosives, bombs, missiles and other perhaps is the bottom line, but it has destroyed the peace, to the public.So all the industries are not is life.# # p# page title e#

In the same way, even if the work doesn't really hurt others, but evil thoughts, want to be hurt, that is absolutely not is life.Wish with all my heart to make a lot of money to a plague of doctors, and a businessman, looking forward to working with good business famine under this mindset to make a living way would not be called "life".

Everyone is a member of society, so we have to work hard, service people, to the best of our responsibility to society.At the same time, because of our efforts to pay, so that we can get some real returns, to maintain life.Even the monk has to do his work, to get people to give: purify his heart is hard, in order to DuDu people.If by deception, cast avatar, or that the has reached a certain level, etc., to the mercy of others, is not is life.

Income, our work is to keep himself and his family life.If do spare capacity, should be at least one part of to give back to society, for the welfare of all living creatures.So as long as engaged in the industry, it is to be a useful person in society, to make ends meet and help the people at the same time, then the job is a "life".

4. All the good pursues

What is the most precious in the world?Hugo said good: good.And anything that can help others, peaceful and harmonious behavior, to others is good behavior, that is good.Goodwill between people, can live in harmony, harmony, depends on the fate.Struggle between people and people to hate and blame each other, each other, even killing each other, also is the fate.Especially between family father and son, wife, children, relatives and friends, whether the relationship is good, happy, more to the fate.The fate can make a person happy laughter, the fate can also make a person sad.Because the fate of good and evil, good fortune is love, care and take care of each other;Fight evil fate, hated each other, rat.So said: husband and wife is edge, it is good fortune, is evil, no not a couple;Children are debt, debt collection, is paying off debts, can't out of debt.

5. The net its meaning

Buddhist scriptures, in large part about how net since its meaning, eliminate since beginningless product set of karma, enables you to control your heart, become the master of you from your heart.Different sects have different methods, these methods did not compete, just easy for people.Here we recommend standard formulation.Why recommended standard formulation, see this blog in "we need to read the law BoFu must mention" bad karma sentient beings.Now in China also have a few units in quasi formulation for study.According to my humble opinion, quasi Internet taken the teaching way has distinguishing feature very much, times feeling is very strong, and have a good idea, in addition to speak method, also speak life planning, psychology, value creation, such as content, is very helpful to students living in the society.

All their evil mo as a ring, ring made me, decide, since the net which is fixed with hui process.All the good pursues is to gain your own good fortune.So that we can be increased in the ford and wisdom.Want to success, change your life, have enough wisdom, what problems can be solved.If we have enough of ford, there will be more good and all the help, more achievements and change your life.Accurate formulation while the main part of self-purification of its meaning, but for us maintain and repair at all very good.As long as can do "silent heart constantly recite", individual concentration and ford can grow.

So if you really want to change your fate, or want to increase your wisdom, enhance concentration, wide, reciting must curse, practice the accurate formulation can have very good effect.