A monkey,Man's social intercourse

A monkey is very clever, they have other animal sign not firmness, once decided to things, is bound to stick it out.But a monkey man also has the strong superiority, from their own interests, always thought of gain for themselves.Feel-good vanity and love of the tent of the monkey, the most don't understand the "advice when most needed is least heeded" reason criticism from a monkey, effect must be counterproductive.

A monkey who is very confident, and reach the level of narcissism, they act love vanity, and selfishness.They always consider problems from their own interests, can't stand other people to oneself, even blame and criticism is really good for them, a monkey who also conspicuously ungrateful, and experienced resentment.So harshly criticized a monkey, is a very dangerous thing, and sometimes will cause sharp contradictions, lead to broken relationships.

Work in the process, if working with a monkey man, have to understand this principle.If a monkey subordinates to do things is always unsatisfactory, you have to learn to use scientific guidance and the family influence way to inspire them, and every detail in the work to help and care, gently pointed out that the monkey do not reach the designated position.Gave a monkey people face already so, also can let a monkey, a person to discover problems.If a raging as of a storm, will only make a monkey, low self-esteem, no face felt they might choose to passive resistance, trouble trouble everywhere, on the premise of not breach collective rules and discipline, affect you as the supervisor's leadership effectiveness.

A monkey people are often too high, even though they really clever.Vanity strong monkeys also easily jealous, whenever others have progress or others, there is something that belongs to the monkey people do not have this kind of jealousy is an urban system to show it.A monkey people's competitive consciousness is very strong, but good at hiding his own ideas, good at behind his cunning action plan.In dealing with the monkey contacts, to avoid linesmen, provoked the monkey not happy, especially to avoid criticism, because the monkey is (monkeys are) grudges, especially when you get the monkey face.May you all forget export criticism this matter, but a monkey, people can not forget, they not only don't forget, also feel you conceited.

So, with the monkey, try not to severe criticism.Try to use soft technique to points out the shortage of the monkey, and clear out of what you say is good for him.For example, a monkey, if they get into the habit of gambling, you can't expect with criticism sarcastic words can "parlour" monkey, because they don't eat this one.A monkey rebellious heart is very strong, especially when their vanity and superiority is affected, they reverse special terrorist.This time, you can respond, to speak of from the harm of gambling, profound monkey see his gambling bad changes.If say: "see you like this, I'm really concerned about you."Definitely better than criticism.Monkeys will feel a friend's sincerity, self-interested immediately comes to mind, let him from their own interests, to realize each other said is really beneficial.

In seeking to supplement, thoughtful design, according to its own strength, when a monkey people are still in the "struggle" period, cuts cannot apply to, and should support the encouragement.You know, the clever monkeys do is nothing.