Belong to the ratMan's social intercourse

If you kept talking in front of people belong to the rat, don't think you a flow of words can cause them, because they can't tell your insight super weakness weakness could see them clearly.Even carelessly, still can cause rat of bad feeling.Clever rat shaw, always appears so smart, want to with these smart"The mouse"Get along, you must first learn to listen.

The reason why god give a person two ears one mouth, is to teach people talk less and listen more.In interpersonal communication, learn to listen not only for the respect of others, can show you the training and the cultivation of more.The most good at to communicate with people, are the people who a good listener.In life, attractive people must be a listener, not gush, talkative person.This, when you in the process of interaction with people belong to the rat becomes even more important.Maybe in the process of talking, and you belong to the rat people didn't say a few words, but you will respond after listen to "mice", you appropriate words will cause their favor, they think you respect them, they also gradually by the attention to like to talk to you.

Rat is observation and random strain ability is prominent, they can always in carelessly between, your words and deeds to observe clearly, they will learn from your conversation and look to your mental, then judge the man for you.Rat people though quick, flexible, speaks more quickly, but they are for those who is artful, kept talking have unpleasant associations.Because they naturally strong insight, always in someone else's behavior detect any hidden things, such as the disadvantage of others try to hide, or personality of the dark side.As the saying goes, his destruction, and the least said, soonest mended.When a person is in front of the mouse is too much to show their own "eloquence", whether to curry favor with the mouse or ordinary normal communication, this person is a rat man prospects are likely to be the "dark".

Rats like to those who know how to speak of "hear" them, so, and people get along with, you must first learn to listen.Real listening, is you, with your eyes, ears to listen to.And not only to learn to use ear to listen, learn to listen attentively.Here are with the mice of listening skills:

1. To have a good state of mind.Good state of mind is to listen to the important premise of quality, if you "hear" malaise, is didn't listen to good effect, can only make the communication quality.

2. In time with movement and facial expressions to echo.When we talk, should be good at using their posture, facial expression, parenthesis and interjection.Such as smile and nod, will make the conversation more harmonious.

3. Need to silence.The rest of silence like the sheet music, used correctly, is infinite, meaning really can achieve the effect of the "silent sound".But must use appropriate silence, not all occasions, withdrawn and abuse of silence.

4. Timely appropriate questions.Timely moderately question is a way to listen to.Rats like to answer questions and encourage them to talk about themselves and their achievements.Want to make people interested in you, that first interested in others.

5. Don't interrupt others talk, be patient.When the mice speak a lot of content, or due to reasons such as emotion, language expression some scattered and even chaos, you should patiently listened to their narrations.Even if some content is you don't want to listen to, also want to listen patiently.

All in all, wanting to gain favor with the mouse, you'll listen.Ears to listen to have to do to, to the eye, to the heart, when you are through clever response to belong to the rat to the direction that you need or level, you can easily gain the initiative in the conversation.A good listener, will let you get the welcome of people belong to the rat everywhere.