House parsing the 7th Dana Gerhardt

Dear, April:

In the article, write about the 7th house I'm not confident.My dear friends, this is why I ask you to read my column.Not just because you have a happy marriage, and you have a seven palace on the moon.If someone is able to balance my way, and that is you.Do you want to know, counselors ask how nervous I was when I relationship index, I tried to get them from the relationship between pan out in the puzzle, if they insist, I will recommend them to you for help.The 7th house revealed I a guilty secret, I don't believe in soul mate.Find a doomed and I like to find a perfect combination of people kirin or griffin.

Now you know why I am not confident.This is a dangerous point of view.Most people consulting astrologers is hoping to hear good information about their soul mate, (for example, I met the love of my life will be?)I am afraid I in point view is wrong.But I can understand why people looking for a soul mate.This is due to the seventh palace.This is the place where we desire and accept others.This prompted us to duet, we strive for harmony, one-to-one, not just with one person, but with a lot of important others, like teachers, coaches, colleagues, lovers.We can dance with them for a while, a quarter, or forever.But by them, we live out our own.They drove us to grow./ by the 7th house we become more complete.Sounds good, but in practice often associated with pain, because 7 palace is not only a stage, it is a razor, smooth the edges and corners on the edge of our character.In astrology, 7 partner palace palace palace 1 palace relatively coincide with self.That is why 7 palace symbol at the same time open enemy and my 'true love'.(unfortunately, a lot of love finally became a public enemy.)

If the so-called like a pastoral poetry partner just like us, like anchovy sandwich hate the Lord of the rings, admiring Italian marble, not afraid of my emotions, know me, no one else can do it, then the pursuit of such contradictory and unified into a dangerous proposition.Unfortunately, we end the romantic fairy tale love, began to hate our partner, often for the same reason.

But why is this so?

It will be from the rising sign, our initial mask.This is in the environment of the early, we play the role of one of the best.He represents the part of us, but not all of the potential, he draw a beneficial boundary.(I that do it, not to do that.)When we build our own story, for those who do not conform to the quality of myth we rise also need to do something.We put these in the 7th house, later to meet the needs in life.This arrangement makes us deeply eager to recapture those who inadvertently lost everything.When who has the qualities of our repressed this part, we feel incredibly powerful attraction.But when we know more about them, they're incredibly become less attractive.Our inherent resistance began to emerge.In any other store, you can hear endlessly about 7 between palace and rising.

TaurusMr Initially attracted by the mysterious and Scorpio lover's deep, now fear their terrible darkness;Miss Capricorn to move for his cancer prince deeply, until one day she found that the prince into a poverty and naive frog.Oh, how do I with such a poor man.My virgin hopelessly in love with a Pisces, I became a poet, spiritual seekers, musicians, we live together, / huge change.All of a sudden, Mr Perfect became a failed visionaries, confusion, unrealistic, ambiguous.When you look at the chart of each pair of partner, you will find that every person have some of these planets or symbol associated with the seven palace of another.This is to attract.I admit, that is my focus for more disc.I don't care about jack's Venus arch the Sue of Mars.This chart is usually has announced a relationship problems and rupture.Take off the rose-colored glasses, jack may be a very lovely man, but if Sue can't give up her inherent preconditions, their love will be doomed to tragedy.

A good rule of thumb is that once a man and have a strong feelings between us, for we have an effect, then he is in the unconscious dance with your seventh house of shadow.Use your wisdom, pack up your complaints, learning to solve these problems, they will activate your inner qualities.Of course there is no anger, but worth the effort.You can for your deeper suffering - inner balance and efforts.Go back to my own problem, I amPiscesDon't see any thing in common, I amvirgo, analytical, organized and efficient.But through partners all kinds of faults, I also saw my hidden side.Imagine, I found that I can be forgetful, false and escape from reality.Now accept my partner becomes easy.And accept my own inner side Pisces is all become more positive.I now become more relaxed, more peaceful.Perhaps, my partner, Robert is my soul mate in the end.If there is a soul mate, maybe is to point to some driving us with his forgotten the part of the combination of the soul.

There are a lot of information on the 7th house, such as the native.Placement of the native often shows the person's emotional life center or recurring theme.If one of the seven palace main fall into ten palace in charge of the business, he may work through his marriage in the invitation, or with a partner of the partnership to work, or has been single married her lifelong career.My seven palace main sea king apparently on the second palace in charge of the money, I tend to think of my personal financial relations, or personal relationship financialization.When I met the romantic marriage, I like to say: "my dear, we can save money togetherBuy a house!"This dream I two long-term relationships in the rapid development and collapse.Neptune, like a magician, his magic has added to my account, but it broke my partner, now three people are on the verge of bankruptcy.

Money was once the center of my parents' marriage problem, they often quarrel for this purpose.My father spend money like water, but my mother can admirable raw gold.Seven palace until recently I found that my head and my parents' chart is hedge has six planets.For a long time, I like a small fish, this is my parents a couple of fishermen throw into confusion of the sea.Are we not all benefit from the myth of marriage?Here I mean the myth is my parents' marriage.These early god (parents) in the kingdom of our unconscious influence like couple of Zeus.We can spy on rising from birth story password, maybe we can from the myth of marriage in this paper, the point of a secret.

This is the story of my parents' marriage.Neptune claim they already know the happiness of love.theyTo get marriedDivorce and remarriage, my father left my mother when I was eight, my mother left my father when I was 14.After that they were together again, that buy a house together, live together, often strange business cooperation together again recently, separated the two houses in the same city.I absolutely don't want to repeat their unhappy, but my relationship is also not stable.Relationships end incident occurred from time to time, and the relationship between my parents.For the first time in eight years later, the second time in 14 years, and my mother, is the first time I have been abandoned, the second time that I leave.Now, I have a "LAT" relationship, this is my friend advice to europeans, livingaparttogether, living separately relationship.She said it is a new fashion of Europe, in fact, I know more about, this is my parents in the later years of relational schema.

Thankfully 7 palace not only tell us relationship problems.It is interesting to note that he can describe any other parties. We are interested in the oldThis is both modern and classical astrologers agree.For me, for example, the potential of consulting clients' participant 'is very important.There are very few astrologer relate customer development and 7 palace.This more so about the challenge of the marketing content of 10 palace.But it is also a kind of interpersonal relationship?Over the years, I've heard a lot of is not successful, the astrologer said, their potential customers are complaining about this city have no decent astrologer.April, this more than three years in three cities you start your new astrological practice.How do you think?

I'm engaged in the first year of astrology is very cold and cheerless, six weeks if the phone rang once, that even if the busy for a month.I just received a consultation request a month.I do advertising, but do not place.Now think about, the problem is in my seventh house.I'm not ready to face this relations of cooperation.I hope to have the customer the door on the surface, but I fear in the heart, I don't know what they will need to consult some content.Whatever it is, I feel I can't meet their needs.My resistance is greater than my desire.Similarly, astrologers predicted that there will be a new relationship, but customer complain that no at all.I know it's a bit like excuses for failure prediction, but I bet this customer on his seven palace put up a sign "no admittance".

I decided only to those who I think can get along as friends do the astrological consultation, once had the key decision, I began to attract more customers.This looks just reduced my fear, but in fact, it shows that the who appears correct.Over the years, I found another strange phenomenon, most people have a strong intuition my commission.This fits the characteristic of Neptune seven native (I).Seven palace shows we attract the type of people, and the purpose of our meeting.I adjust my approach to help these customers have a strong intuition to find they already know.We explore their feelings together, subconscious behavior and their rich imagination.To sum up, we had a way of Neptune tea party.I am ready to cup, they brought in the tea.

About 7 palace is here, I look forward to your reply!

Dear Dana

OK, I admit I love seven palace!Your wonderful hypothesis (although it is only assumption), I quite agree with this theory, I don't seven palace filled with those qualities that I like.Philosopher, clowns, pretend to know everything, it is true I on the riseSagittarius.Reporter, gossip message, media workers, I need these traits associated with my seven palace Gemini, very happy I can see in my side dear.

However, I have to you about 'marriage myths' theory is very curious, and it also affected our expectations of marriage.In my view their chart is that it provides a lot of ideas.Mercury seven palace is my Lord, so the third palace I marriage & mercury & Gemini described in this paper.Because my father died when I was small, my memory for the parents of the coexistence of a little bit.But I remember those comfort me to sleep sound coming from downstairs, that isGeminiThe most beautiful lullaby.They sat in the downstairs kitchen table, easy to talk, and there was laughter.One summer, mom took the brothers and sisters and I go on holiday, dad left to see the harvest!Many years later, I stumbled upon the summer letter to mom and dad good, full of feelings, interesting letter.Letter to your best friend is the kind you.I fell on the 7th head drop point of Gemini means my expectations of marriage is, if my partner my best friend and confidant.My husband and I relationship is based on a long period of time to drink coffee chat.In fact, all the important relationship in my life can be traced to the characteristics of Gemini, conversation.

But at the end of the myth or end in misery, seven palace of the moon is Pluto square grams), one day, Zeus to get a bunch of clouds, he left his best friend partner Hera (or diedA car accident), like my father.When you're young and sensitive, encountered such a situation how to face?I choose to set the romantic relationship between a built-in time limit."Oh, he is going toGo to jail.""His many years older than me, so will die before I go."You see, I can take the leave plan.I felt a kind of control.(this is also the moon and Pluto square) of the impact of.My romantic plan easily realized this situation because of my parents - these people leave you planned.

When I finally meet bosom friend, my best friend, I'll be in trouble, because I don't like him to leave, but on the other hand, he would leave without a certain time limit.I was appalled by the state of the out of control.In order to a happy marriage, I must learn to overcome my fear of separation, learn to believe and love no sure to leave time.

(short for a short discussion about their customers)

However your way - select only those who can get along with you as a friend as a customer - sounds very wise is completely suitable for you.Drop point in Pisces is the most significant advantages is that it can make you devote.This is very good, but also very tired, I'm sure.So you are wise to identify you clients benefit from you in virgo (up), because you respect facts, every consulting subtly profound way to change your cosmic DNA.Each of your clients are excellent, full of enthusiasm, like an artist's elegant gem - sounds like Pisces person?I drop point in Gemini, however, every consultation can play BarbaraWalters (American well-known host host) - "let's talk about your story!"I found these incredible fun.I listened to their story, and then change the more promising way to recap the story again, stood in their point of view to help them get more perceptive point of view.But I don't have to be a part of it.

To tell the truth, I with the customer of communication is expected to end time (during the 90 - minute consultation after they leave, again is OK of course).By applying the theory of "marriage myth" 7 palace to paraphrase in customer relations of cooperation, I can clearly know why I often occur and customer rights struggle, and often exceeded the time.I couldn't stand the customer to be late, do not appear, do not pay on time.I feel a bit out of control, so that the power struggle to remind me, in order to let other people affect me, I must go beyond the deadline to protect their security.

This is a problem of astrology with a long history, a theory called 7 palace described our partner, but I am not totally agree with this.I think 7 palace there is another layer of meaning is that it describes others into our lives, whether it is a close relationship or the enemy - we give to others the relationship between the interactive environment.

For example, while you focus on your virgo rises the strong feelings of pragmatism, Dana, but I didn't experience the feeling.I can see your behavior, if I look at your personality, I will see meticulously, plain, but this is not your side in the interpersonal relationships.I feel, you approach the sea king seven palace is eternal.Said to you, my dear friend, I entered a interesting garden, full of imagination, freedom of imagination, and very, very waste of time.For a long period of time to chat with you or read your letter is like a mini vacation.This is the script.This is always neglected Neptune part qualities - mesmerizing, enjoy this process.

Once someone has entered our 7th house (both partners, business partners, deadly enemies), they will experience the us with very different characteristics at ordinary times, and a rise in our constellation show different personal characteristics.Study those we discard dream, passion and personality traits, seven palace is like a mirror told us this.Our partner like Wendy, Peter pan will be Peter's shadow together (that is, the 7th), then this and our own rising (that is, a house) is a complete we split.

I put down as a screen, and through this screen you can see all we need to go beyond in interpersonal relationship by us into the problem.Looking for a potential partner, we to drop some points out that the characteristics of their "interview", choose a few into our seventh house.Maybe we even charge the ticket and expect our partners in the 7th to play one or more of the planet to worth the cost.Finally, is this means we will choose a suitable partner and then play with him the same relationship pattern over and over again?Maybe, or we learn to go to peaceful coexistence with our drop point!

Saturn in the 7th in the classical astrology is yao litres of location, this means that we want to create a seven palace environment we want to be responsible.But to our dismay we always again and again into the same in us meet relationship obstacles on the road.If you think you will be doomed to repeat those unsuccessful relationship in the past no matter how hard you try to change, that you are really crazy.Frustration and anger when we want to hear about the thing of the past is that we just responsible for change unsatisfactory.Instead of those we have already approved, accept the challenge, to reconcile our relationship with seven palace shadow, we firmly believe that others our faith is verified, the universe is blessing us forces.

I'm chart in seven palace of the moon let I whole life working to learn how to deal with interpersonal relationship, and then put me in the astrological community "DearAbby" position is much more than I thought.Even so, Dana, I for the 7th was not clear.But I think you will agree that the 7th is not simply interpreted as to find the other half, is more reasonable, through this house let us find ourselves through the eyes of others.But if you think the 7th is a problem,...