AB bloodThe destiny of man - pessimistic negative character

The fate of negative pessimistic character

AType B bloodPeople have developed sensitive nerve, the sensitive like their tentacles, always look in the surrounding environment.Their sensitive, with their rational, they're more likely to fall into pessimism, that is to say, in the deep heart's core, a lot of AB blood after one thing, will think it is not so good.Has a lot of AB blood people really like to see some sad when reading the text, and the more see the more "in my heart have creates" feeling, seems to be that describe some sad words are written out your own inner and wanted to say said not to come out.And their preference for this kind of literary works, which in turn reinforced their negative pessimistic attitude.

AB blood often into inexplicable melancholy, in a lot of AB blood, people always say happiness is very important, because happiness too little;And happy this thing is can meet it, then I can't forecast when it will come.If from the point of the proportion of individuals, pessimistic AB blood component is larger.Especially after the setback, a lot of AB blood will tend to exaggerate what they suffered setbacks, may see from the way they speak, they will often use "general", "full", "without exception" and "is" and other words, actually, frustration is not so common.And when they described encountered setbacks, sometimes also can say "love how how!"In this way, said a kind of negative emotions.We know that when a person after setbacks to universality, the setbacks will severely hinder a person's behaviour, that person will think, in the face of a setback so worthless and powerless;And optimistic person can be practical and realistic evaluation of setbacks and failures, they admitted that he was a failure in a specific matters, but in other aspects of their life and without fail.This, is worth to be learned by AB blood.

AB blood, however, the pessimism is not a vile indeed.Of course, if a person wait all day just totally immersed in a negative pessimistic mood, will greatly affect his ability to work, more won't have any big achievements.But, in the middle of the AB blood, there is some people, they will be able to properly control their pessimism, and to absorb the beneficial ingredients from it.For example, pessimistic people always think things seem suspicious, among them a wise man will make full use of this trait, grasp things a variety of adverse factors, thus try to avoid a crisis, in order to obtain a bigger development.AB blood of Tony leung is a good example.

This is a everyone is already familiar with the star of his blue eyes and make a lot of attractive mature manA womanFor the fans.In the issue of "art life" show, Tony leung chiu-wai has always stressed that he is a very pessimistic person.Tony leung said: "I think I'm has always been a very low, very shy person, so just to be an actress, hiding behind role is safe, otherwise I would have to be the host.Because pessimistic, I forever will only to their own shortcomings, I never see where is good place."Because of his pessimistic, so he is not afraid of failure.He said: "if I don't fail, next time I might make a mistake.Failed and will remember their own shortcomings.If I had done well, next time the advantages of natural also exist.However, not all day only remember your strengths, or it will gradually pride and arrogance."Obviously, Tony leung chiu-wai turns the pessimistic into a force pushing himself forward, allowed him to constantly improve themselves.

So pessimistic character is not terrible, terrible is can't face up to reality, but simply to escape get stuck in sadness.Of course, major setback, almost every type of people will produce a bad mood.If can let a person faces a major setback as cool as a cucumber, laughing, that is too demanding.However, pessimistic character AB blood people often because of a mistake or failure, will tend to think that oneself is useless, easy to emotional, subjective, exaggeration, does not conform to the actual feeling.

Type AB blood people pessimistic character will never interfere with their success.They often succeed because they could treat their pessimistic character, the pessimistic as a spur rather than a fatal flaws.In Potsdam, Germany psychologist RON, for there is such a pessimistic view, he said, too much positive thoughts easily misled to the person, let a person at the time of still need to struggle, but think is assured.Experiments show that their "anyway, just so students can always get the best grades.In this "the broken broken falls" the subtext is behind the "it doesn't matter that try again".This is the power of pessimism, that is those gloomy AB blood are often able to greater achievements.

Pessimism and optimism is actually a kind of attitude to life.In the life, optimistic and pessimistic people wear colored glasses to see things.A pessimist is characterized by the bad things and bad message is extremely sensitive and preference.They seems to be a watchful sentinel, always alert the risk information in the surrounding environment.Not only that, after the things, they will think that this is all your own fault, the bad thing will continue for a long time, and will destroy everything.Contrary and optimistic person, they are more sensitive for good things and good information, preference, tend to exaggerate the role of good things and good information.When they encounter bad luck, always think that failure is temporary, and has its own reason, not their fault, may be the consequences of the environment, bad luck, or other factors.Modern society is the fierce competition of society, people are facing the opportunities and setbacks are increased significantly than in the past, and now it is widely exist anxiety and depression.Generally considered environmental risk caused by the psychological vulnerability, but from a psychological perspective, depression and anxiety, there are individual differences are mainly caused by a look at the way.Don't look down upon this distinction, it often can decide a person succeed in life, physical and mental health, even life.(Blood type and personality /xx/)

So, for those who are naturally pessimistic AB blood, to actively to face his pessimistic negative emotions, disadvantage into advantage, face to face with pessimistic, then use positive attitude to resolve the pessimistic.If you do, then you will be more than natural disposition is optimistic people win a weight!