How to see through body language of a person's heart?

Body language: one of his words

Body movement features: Mr. He, shoulder hung down, past your head.

A lot of people decided to disclose the truth of the critical moment, will involuntarily to make this kind of body language.This position on behalf of his mental is in a state of compliance, obedience, and secretly hoping to get your understanding.However, you don't have to immediately and make a conclusion, he is ready to speak of that pile of things may not necessarily be the most worried about you.Maybe he just need your help.

Deal with secret: might as well use light tone, in order to "you seem to have words to say with me" issues such as opening, then shut up, leave some time to let him consider the wording, and patience to wait for his response.Like a machine gun of avoid by all means ask, instead of "QiangBai him the chance to speak."

If he want to say is not what I'm sorry you are wrong, of course not in it for too long.If he trembles the number of more and more frequent, the words to the mouth and swallowed back, on behalf of the truth of the matter is likely to make you very uncomfortable - at this point, you'd better have a psychological preparation, otherwise once lost, will not be able to calmly thinking way to deal with.

Body language # 2: he is upset

Body movement features: his hands on his hips, in lower part, sitting in his hand.

When the feeling, to express themselves without reservation being people, hands menstruation often unconsciously came to dance to.Hand pad in the buttocks, sitting in his own hand, on behalf of the person is trying to control himself, lest blurted out shouldn't say.

Deal with secret: praise him as a sweet "baby", etc.You can also use body language to relax smooth his uneasiness, put your arms behind the back of the chair, put everywhere in appearance, or from his behind surrounded by a surprise for him.

He is not in the hidden something gross, but was afraid to say will mess up the whole situation or atmosphere - in fact, many people will have this habit since childhood.It also said that he is worry about the rest of the words and deeds will lead to the displeasure of others.When he feel your gentle peace, he will follow the relaxed, insecurity will fade away.

Body language # 3: he was annoyed

Body movement features: he clenched fists, vacillation, jaw tight.

Because of anger, hate, is not easy to be hidden emotions, so he is bound to lessen the chance of direct eye contact with you.Subconscious, he worried that once you look straight into the eyes of him, heart agitated will be you see through.Unconsciously clenched fists, too, is the symbol of the will be angry.Finally, look at his chin and cheek is stretched tightly together.If he sips live lips and cheeks two near the muscles of the jaw incessantly twitch contraction, that really anger burst into flames, the back of his mind.

Deal with secret: remove has serious violence, most men would rather keep silent, don't want to direct conflict with the women.Want to know why he is angry, might as well look into his eyes.If you encounter with his eyes, he just glared at you immediately transfer line of sight, the eighty percent you is the prelude to get his goat.

At this time, you'd better tell him directly: "I can see you are not happy, we have a problem?"This means that you are willing to solve the trouble with him.If he is angry because of something else, might as well let him know that you can act as he talk to object, then slowly calm him.

Four of the body language: his pressure is very big

Body movement features: he keeps his fingers touch or comb your hair.

Playing with hair is the symbol of psychological decompression.Coat with buttons, fold a napkin folding, also have the same meaning.He may constantly transform posture, shaking feet, back and forth finger image to play the piano like a tabletop.

Deal with secret: can you help him is to distract him, stop him continue to sidetrack.Otherwise, the pressure is like a snowball rolling.Avoid by all means constantly pepper him what happened.You can absently pull him back to reality, to invite him to the park for a walk, see a movie, rely on another activities arouse his interest.Once he will trouble from the mind, and most likely will tell you the cause of the pressure.Many times, he may not fully understand their own troubles to come!