In the mind characterfaces

Communication more and more people in modern society, life, work, community is more and more big, the frequency of contact with strangers also more and more high, so we will find in the interpersonal communication, some people the first impression, what did you see just wanted to associate with, or let a person willing to close to, is called "happy", and gadites, risk aversion, is called "don't like to see".Perhaps we have no more time to understand a person, so understanding of each other is largely from walk sit lie, manners of these, together is one of the "phase".

The following selected from "the Buddha said difference karma sutra: there are ten industry complex.To be able to make all ugly.One line of wrath.Both good bosom hate.The three to confound to him.Four angered all beings.Five to parents, no love to heart.Rulers in six sanctuary and respectful.Seven engenders Tian Ye xian a road to st.Eight people in the pagoda temple break out the lamp.Nine people see ugly, destroyed Zi disdained.Ten people acquire the bad.To is ten.Too ugly.

There are ten industry complex.To be able to make a living beings have to correct.Things don't Chen.The two clothes.The three respect parents love.Four respect xian SAN.Five finishing pagoda.Six sweep is aspersed tong yu.Seven is sweeping monk to sprinkle.Eight sweep is aspersed pagoda.Nine see ugly, not vain, devotion.Ten people see straight, realize lodge.To is ten.Have to correct.

, combined with our own simple explanation that "business" refers to what we do every pile or good or evil, like all kinds of color, will continue to embalm dye into life, waiting for the outer induction and bud growth, just as the sowing seeds in the soil, waiting for the sunlight, air, water, induction and bud growth, the current in Buddhism is called karma.In the manner of the industry is the current karmic cause, the karma of current, is the result of the industry have created, namely "quote".This is what we call of cause and effect.To understand this, we look back to see this passage, you can understand.- this is the wisdom of the Buddha.

"University of rites" : "from ancient to Ming Ming DE TianXiaZhe, first put the nation;To treat the feeling emigre, has its first home;To their families, the ap its body;To fix the body, is the heart;Desire is the heart of rectified;To rectified, first to his knowledge, knowledge depends on.Content, and then know, know to then sincere, sincere hearts are, heart is the rear, and then home together, home together and then the cure, the cure and the world ".To by reducing their own desires, reduce their own greed, to let oneself sober, rights and wrongs.Mindfulness and try to all aspects of the sociable way after the word sincerely, efforts to break the evil good, over time their accomplishment got up, have the wisdom.With wisdom so governance, China, the world would not be a problem.- this is the wisdom of the Confucianism.

Modern society, people's living condition is getting better and better, the pursuit of beauty, the external image desires are also rising, and one of the external appearance, true shape and temperament, is in the heart, as in line, several thousand years of Chinese traditional culture, Confucianism, Buddhism, Taoism and folk wisdom of classic family precepts, the old adage, which is from the heart, mind and will is words and deeds manner, end, so, if we ignore one-sided to pursue the external embodiment of the spiritual practice, that is the point, climb a tree to look for fish.

So, we should let oneself be happy, sunshine, tolerance, behaved, filled with positive energy.If friends watch carefully, so people are very easy to make people live close to the feeling of love, trust, such a person, if not appearance, but will not be lamentable, such a person is in the words of the modern "good temperament.A person starts from the eye, to face to the whole individual phase, all in the state of your life, that his mind realm, and phase is born of heart, the line and submit them to.

Each of us has its own characteristics, are in a different environment, the important thing is to know yourself first, a lot of people to look at your rarely, seldom go to analysis the advantages and disadvantages of themselves, should not be targeted to correct their own words and deeds, but this is precisely what impact the quality of life, the happiness of a family, the most important foundation of success.Heart, cultivate one's morality, trim, will bring us good luck, our manners, behavior habits will affect our luck, pay more attention to our own bad habits, try to change, can increase our luck, the merits, there are many factors which can affect the person's life, as long as we head to counsel, dare to correct their bad habits, get rid of his bad habit, must will winds produced a good luck.

The traditional Chinese concept of "heart" is a brain.Huangdi neijing have cloud: "the heart, the officer of monarch also, god out."The so-called "gods" is refers to person's mind, which is a function of the brain, that is the traditional Chinese concept of "heart" includes the function of the brain.Physiological anatomy is the concept of "heart" from the west, its when translated chose the Chinese character "heart", but the heart is not the heart.Modern because of the education, is the heart but not much heart, said he is my heart heart, goes to zai!

The person's eye is an optical instrument, we can see the round, square, flat, high, short, black, white, red is light through our eyes zoom onto the retina imaging, this like visually stimulating cells produce electrical conduction to the cerebral cortex, so we "think" like.That is to say, we "see" to "like" is not the eye of the thing itself, but by the "sleep" to the "heart" as indirect generated by (just the process time is very short, we notice), and in the general concept and the "like" is called "phase", so "the in the mind".Why "diamond sutra" said: "in every country all phase is false?Because from the perspective of the mind "" phase, phase but are essentially" brain waves ".

Zen six ZuHui in huangmei wisely, to guangzhou method temple, patriarchal values seal teacher speak the nirvana sutra, when the wind blows discussion, a monk yue pneumatic, a monk discussion, comment, huineng into yue: "not pneumatic, discussion, noble heart."Six ancestors why say" move ", because "the mind", also move also tempted.Six ancestors said not air, is not a discussion, not is no air, no discussion, but in the "enlightenment" in the final is the "heart" of the motion of the higher level of understanding, through comparing the two did not move, to emphasize and highlight "exactly" move is enchanted.Otherwise, the wind is still, discussion how to move?Complications, heart how to move?If there were 99 monks and other ordinary people together to listen to the law, a say, no matter how dynamic wind trail of how to move, his heart is fixed, then the sky suddenly down a thunder beat the skull of a fragmented, the "heart" of pour determine is not moved, but the wind is still moving, complications are still moving, the 99 men's heart is still moving.

In the mind character faces

Any merit has its inevitable reasons, like the wealth comes from charity, as distinguished from a humble, beautiful appearance from soft good temperament.

After the middle-aged, there appeared the influence caused by the faces of the personality.

Generous people most a prosperous-looking, disposition gentle physiognomy soft beautiful.

Character particularly rough people, always a face of company;Many conduct is not good in middle-aged women, often face the hard phase, this is the so-called rush phase, phase.

Aren't actually born appearance, but the heart and behavior of the practice for a long time in the face of projection, the face also predict the fate of their future.

Convinced that is a kind of accumulation of experience, in the mind, by the concept of face, the heart to know the future.

So the cause of childhood and youth, youth looks what?

Features associated with parents' genetic factor, face shape and often associated with congenital qi, beautiful degree is caused by the former habits of life.

People under the influence of the first half is living in the past, life is more under the influence of living in the first half.

So, after the middle-aged, must be responsible for his face.

Compassion is a particularly important factor.

Compare the good-hearted person, often from the inside out exudes a superhuman guanghua, let a person more see more pleasing to the eye, like contact with more and more.

But too selfish, cunning, dispute is not able to bear or endure look, or even ugly.Even if lucky to have good appearance, also will gradually appear on the face some endearing, no gas, for example, is only "one eye pleasing to the eye," a bit more contact is unappealing.

Please believe that appearance is to be able to gradually change, especially the good appearance is by inside and outside sending out a kind of appeal, let see unconsciously jealous admiration.

Most of the time, see the heart of beauty was born, "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" is this truth.

So, if you want appearance beautiful, first to heart!

A, willing to suffer, can't eat a deficit after all.Can a bad person, popularity is good, popularity, more opportunities nature.Person's life, can grasp the primary and secondary, is enough!

Second, being pushy, ultimately could not account for cheap, pick up a tree grass, loss of a forest.You look at the one to payThe toiletOr wallet for half a day to pay out of the wise, basically do not have what achievement.

Three, small mind's eye, heaven and earth.Friends, three sentences from the men of his own and his own, is the snail reincarnation, empty inside, selfish.The in the mind only their own matter, other things slowly has nothing to do with him.

Four, only cherish every encounter as fate has it can continue.The way in life, we will encounter a lot of people, really decree by destiny to gather together, relatives mostly past friends, friends are mostly past loved ones, give you bring trouble, chances are you past hurt.So remember!!!!!Treat the close relatives, concerned about friends, forgive those people who will hurt you.This is the cause and effect.

Five, the heart shape is rich, need to call you.Happiness is not a character, but a kind of ability.

The best way to solve the trouble, is mellow.

Seven, smile of the light, sat on the cloud.True compassion is not argue is wisdom, not smell is pure, is comfortable and forgive is free, content is put down.

Eight, don't mess in mind, not trapped in love, not afraid of the future, don't read past.

Nine, we what also take not to walk this life is doomed, it is to live in the present moment, laughing in the present and enlightenment in the moment!

In the mind: you are responsible for appearance after 40 years old

Judge a book by its cover is a lot of people at work standards, but Lincoln's behavior was "in the mind of reason.Standing on the scientific point of view, "the in the mind" how many scientific basis?

Once, Lincoln personally interview a candidate, but I did not hire that person.Staff asked him why, he openly declared: "I don't like his appearance!"Staff was very puzzled and asked, "isn't a people grow not good-looking, also is his fault?"Lincoln replied: "a person is parents decided to face up to the age of 40, but after age 40 face is to decide, he responsible for appearance after 40."

The in the mind think what, what do you like

Before there is a small story: a great sculptor, he is very like sculpture hag and various monsters, and sculpture.But one day I looked in the mirror, he suddenly found himself the appearance of more and more ugly.Ugly is not to say that the color of skin and facial features have changed, it is the facial expression and manner, become cunning, fierce and strange.He visited famous doctor, no cure.

Later, by chance, when he visited a temple and his intentions to the temple of the elders said.The elders said, "I can cure your disease, but can't give you a white, you have to do a little work for me, sculpture several statue of guan Yin in different poses.Sculptor accepted after listening to this condition, because of guanyin in China's traditional culture is a kind, kind, gentle, forgiveness, honesty, sculptor in the process of shaping also constantly research and thinking about guanyin virtue, continuous simulation of guanyin, reached the degree of ecstasy.

Gradually, he was surprised to find that their appearance has become god fresh air lang, solemn.He thanked the elders has cured him of his disease.The elders said, no, you cure yourself.

Emotions affect neurotransmitters, and then change the face of a person

Probably the story is magical, but it is a vivid representation of the "the mind".Director of a hospital psychiatrist what thinks, "the main reason why a person's psychological will be related to appearance, because the current medicine thought: the person's psychology is a kind of mood changes, while on the one hand, can affect the person's mood itself neurotransmitter, is we usually say that the hormone.Changes in neurotransmitter concentrations could also affect the person's mood, is a kind of influence each other.We have the sentiment, the neurotransmitter concentrations will also change, when the concentration of the neurotransmitter changes, we will change facial expressions.As a personal meeting in anger dew yoshimitsu, explain the phenomenon from a medical point of view, can have emotional response is met when the brain stimulation, lead to the change of neurotransmitter concentrations, the brain can produce pulse, governs our muscle change, such as muscle contraction and relaxation, present's appearance or expression."

However, the understanding of "the mind" can not be absolute."The mind" this sentence should be the People's Daily life experience summary.People's appearance has a certain relationship with the psychological, from the point of view of science should be a kind of correlation, but cannot say that necessity."A person's psychological change did have some influence on a person's appearance but not in turn reasoning said the appearance of the person so, just jumping to conclusions about his mental condition, between no necessity."

For example we see the so-called "underworld", they is in a bad state for a long time, muscle also was contracting for a long time, there will be various.But we can't, in turn, said a person looks very fierce, he must be a "underworld".Because we face is by the influence of various factors, in reality, we also find that although some people looks more fierce, but he is very kind at heart.

Cleaning the psychological shadow, to "glow"

A person has anxiety for a long time, the doctor at the sight of you will find the person has "anxious face", light see the face of patients will know he is very anxious.Because the patient anxiety for a long time, led to his change of neurotransmitter concentrations, and facial muscles contracting state for a long time, eventually forming the anxious face.From this perspective, "the mind" this sentence got a confirmed.

In the face of depressed patients, doctors will obviously feel the mood is depressed, there is no air, if he is depressed for a long time, it would be even more so.What the director said, "in the process of our treatment, for example by doing psychotherapy, with drugs, will find that the change of the patients is obvious, when his depression cure, you will find that there really is from the heart smile on his face, is definitely not 'skin is better than meat.Before and after the contrast is very obvious."

In another clinical situation, face not only with the psychological factors related to health, also it is affected by multiple factors.Many patients with drug addiction, some patients with abuse of potions, drinking potions addiction patients, they will grow some acne, facial bumpy, acne on the face is very much.Some patients with methamphetamine abuse, President of some obvious spots on her face.

For the treatment of drug addiction usually has two steps: the first step is to detoxification, is simply the drug out, this also leads to his neurotransmitter concentration changes, which have the effect of the treatment.The second step is to psychotherapy, let the victim realized my poison has been ranked out, relax, feeling myself can turn over a new leaf, from the psychological perspective is psychological hint.We found that these patients after treatment is also have very big change: the abuse of liquid medicine of acne and methamphetamine abuse of flake plaques got very big improvement.We sometimes joke with patients, it is like doing hairdressing, face becomes smooth.

Because of dissatisfaction with their appearance and to cosmetic surgery, is a psychological problem.So at that time, a popular slogan, "cosmetic whole heart" first, first adjust state of mind.Such as some people go to cosmetic surgery is the lack of security, and go to breast augmentation is afraid of the husband don't like yourself to an affair, thought so that we can keep the husband stay married.This is the extreme lack of security.After plastic surgery may really can increase her confidence, but the confidence is just a flash in the pan, these problems will be exposed in the end.

So the appearance may affect the psychological, but behind this itself is a psychological problem.

"The mind", or "heart by the combination of", in the past life, family, school, or community always bring us a lot of stuttering, spring rain embellish, the autumn wind bleak, made like our state of mind, this is like.How to change?Cosmetic whole heart first, NLP believes that face the difficult environment, others' ridicule, so-called looks "defects," are you a complain on the environment and others, let you don't have the strength;Complained that his appearance, and made "worthless" feeling.Is the self-acceptance, dominated by me, in searching method.Find ways, of course, not try to change the appearance, but change the EMBA (thoughts, emotions, body, behavior, attitude), thus influence "phase".Some people say that NLP is a learning of beauty, it is your beauty, in the mind, let you become a more attractive person from inside to outside.

The mind, these four kinds of faces you'd better go around!

A: love lie faces

Lie the facial features of the main eye is not straight, become warped, thin upper lip, teeth pointed mouth, mouth slanting, etc.Glances represents a person's heart, is not straight, the heart also not necessarily.This kind of person indolence, habitual lie to people, often for their own use all means to deceive others.They are naturally apathetic, although on the surface often smile to you, let a person feel very harmonious, polite, but behind tend to try every way to make you suffer.

2: love calculating faces

Love calculating eye faces mainly has the following characteristics: eyebrows tail, eye strabismus, cheekbones, jawbone transverse process.In the absence of expressions, they have no strange eyes, but when doing expression, eyes all sizes, but also high and low two eyebrow.This kind of mood is deep, often deliberately hide their idea, afraid of being see through others, always like to use rhetoric to obtain the trust of others.You inadvertently words and deeds, it is easy to let him keep in mind, and never hate you, they will have the chance for you to revenge.

3: love tell faces

Love tell faces in a low brows, eye, face is easy to panic.Such people usually compare the lack of moral bottom line, naturally jealous, like to outspoken and leaders to get some benefits.But outgoing but they have good social skills, in the court at the same time also don't forget to turn report gossip, is also a leader like the kind of person.But due to their petty, jealous, may let a person cannot be trusted, so life will also be fewer close friends.

4: terminating faces

Love tell faces in one's eyes inward deep concave, nose tip, thin, eyes erratic.Most of them will be petty and vain.In order to get something they tend to usury WangYi, try every way to get a hand.If you accidentally get to them, they won't show marks on the spot, later will elaborate layout, try every way to let you not happy, used various methods to get back at you.