Like this kind of situation, is also full of randomness.A name for her daughter "child carry" mother having memory for the children in the name of the experience, said she and her husband had also like many parents, for giving her a good name is almost the you, racking their brains, from child not born classical poetry, the dictionary, also taught Chinese all her life to the grandparents for help, around with friends and family for advice, accumulated a lot of with all sorts of profound meaning of the name of the spare, but I still think what disadvantages.Until when our daughter is nearly full moon must be submitted to the registered permanent residence, she and her husband is still in trouble for her daughter's name.Lying in bed one night, she suddenly from her lips sliding out of the name "child carry", asked almost at the moment she and her husband decided to use the name.A dictionary, later found "submanifold jue qian Lin Li Xian a secrete expansion carry" from the "book of songs", after being in The Three Kingdoms hero cao cao and widely quoted in the short poetry, which is in the "youth child bell, the long my heart" son "carry" this poem is the longing for a man of talent, and "carry" two words looks beautiful, again with the name of the daughter together more full tiancheng, clever expressed the hope that parents wish daughter future better.In the history of our country, there are many random instances) such as the great tang dynasty poet wang wei word mo jie, name associated with the word for d mo jie, is a bodhisattva's name, is because his parents believe in Buddhism, with the bodhisattva's name directly.The song dynasty poet lu you's motherpregnancyDream about when qin and qin guan's word is "less", mother hope he is qin regeneration, can like qin has a career, then the name "swim" for him.Famous song dynasty poet xin qiji son iron column, and specifically for son wrote a word, expression of wealth and longevity, no son no hard, clever.Dip spirit word wrote: "the emperor, and blessing.Test out the crane under the young flower, jing jing afraid afraid.

From this day intelligent, more appropriate pool brother younger sister pole.Read home iron column, no harm no difficult or."Permeated with a touch of calves, what is all parents' wishes.Besides, this desire is not only for people, even today.According to relevant experts, more than half of the people in our names now is to use this kind of hope to the name.This statement is accurate we aside, as long as we looked around familiar names, it is not hard to find that there are some truth, actually also can be found everywhere in life.However, if use this "brainwave, stratagem to mind" optional method name for the child, should be special remind is avoid by all means is too casual, we call freely is not to say that at random to the rambling, and hope that through name can be a dream come true.Said there was a joke, the Ming dynasty, shaanxi has a surname bligh masons, feel so hard still could not get rid of the fate of the poor, so in the hope of his son, give the child the name ABU yuan, which means more wing, making a fortune, will no longer be poor.But he later is still a stonemason, because no name change fate.And small businessman surnamed wu want to make a fortune all day, after a son named for him "hair", meaning the wu from transport, who make a fortune.But later, the son inherited his possessions, business than he.It seems that parents' expectations will be expected, is not necessarily can come true.Another man said, "high", "looking at a less-pressured" is a universal human point of view, not only in the past, now have in China, even foreigners.In Brazil, for example, is circulated at a small civil servant's father to his son the name "secretary" joke, the joke was said that the civil service has been eager to officials how to also can not rise up, and then want to realize his wishes in son generation, for my son the name "secretary", a child in the future is expected to achieve their wishes, moreover wants to borrow his son compensation officialdom frustrated.What, the son grew up not only on the name of the light, but couldn't find work, big good prospects have also been delayed.

Finally, in a small civil servants while he was dying to comfort the child said, "you have nothing to complain about.There are so many important people as when the minister slug, and your life down is to minister, and never can be a minister, this is your power!"Although the story read to let a person sad, but also that a truth, that's name is not only a symbol, not to send anything.Symbol is a sign, the sign to accompany the child's life.If not good, or bad to express parents' expectations, a misfit or separation actuality, not only does not bring good luck, and may be tired by name, don't.Finally, we have stressed the point that, using the optional the gender is the name of the method name, what is not the name can be up, especially for those high profile celebrity names, letter hand of avoid by all means use it, because that despite the parents so as to express hope children as expectations of success as a celebrity, but because, after all, celebrity name usage is too high, the same name may cause misunderstanding, will give children bring unnecessary trouble.As in previous years, xinjiang ili a newspaper reporter has made a survey and found that local children 1 to 8 years old, a lot of people and celebrities to their name Adam cheung siu-chow, lin2 xin such as, Barbara yung, huang2 rong2 such as Hong Kong and Taiwan star, or the characters in the TV series name is especially common.Image of the newspaper also recorded a the dynasty executive and he was in kindergarten, the son of a dialogue, said his son in kindergarten children bullying, home after complaining to my father, that "our class Adam cheung siu-chow hit me", beat him and said that the reason is "because I love our class lin2 xin such as".Son said, "Adam cheung siu-chow" "lin2 xin such as" could have been the name of the Hong Kong and Taiwan star, that they became the names of the children in the class, the reason of this kid's name because when they were born with Adam cheung siu-chow, lin2 xin such as TV series starring popular, so its parent letter hand ready-made name names, really let a person in distress situation the reporter also learned that one lives in jiefang road in yining city hongqi kindergarten 5 lane mr.weng daughter named "Barbara yung", claims that the name of the reason is that their "when I was a child is very like to watch TV series" the legend of the condor heroes ", also love to play the role of huang2 rong2 Barbara yung, so the daughter was born naturally named 'Barbara yung "'.Statement has certain representativeness of the father, and he named only consider their own interests rather than the other, just a bit neglected the rest, the result is conveniently used to ring the name of others.

Though this mindset is also parents hope their children grow up can be somebody like celebrities, but ignored the has called out the name of the social, for the children brought about by the adverse effect may be positive significance is far greater than the expected.

N {� � � � � � � 0 is not serious _ before someone remembered name for guangzhou "week green lai" but was rejected on account, because is easy to cause misunderstanding not long ago a newspaper report, there are two neighbors make antinomy, when a named child r neighbor's name, and all around, away results neighbor unbearable, took him to the court, therefore a lawsuit to a factory.Although it is an extreme example, but it also brings us a revelation, that is in the construction of our harmonious society, the society and I are from many aspects need to work hard, and the name appropriate abide by traditional can also help us inherit and develop traditional, better construction of our country.