Dream of the way

Know the principles of interpretation of dreams is correct or not, talk about dream of four ways:

1. Hit the type of dream interpretation method this method adapted to the simple dream, and a symbol of the dream is to understand, it is easy to know the symbol in the meaning of the dream, can use words embody the interpretation of dreams.You understand the meaning of dreams without turning tell the dreamer, ask him right, verify your explanation.If yes, preliminary complete interpretation of dreams, is wrong, explain it again.

For example, a 50-year-old woman about her dream: "I dream of abdominal pain, then found a switch button on the waist.A closed waist button, abdominal pain."

Life experience or experience of people know the meaning of the dream, but the meaning and that of her age, by the old lady is later she did more than two decades ago, when the interpretation of dreams can give her disturbing: "this dream indicates her at that time the arrival of menopause, and she is going to menopause."

Such as:

There is aThe little girl, she dreamed of a person as a child grew to a stone in the shape of a head, and with a stone head hit her head, her head out of the pit, then she turned to stone shaped head.

This dream is simple, a stone head symbol the stubborn, abrasive and unsympathetic character, smashing head said.Dreams mean, when she was a child, have individual character stubborn and cold, the person often hurt her.Often suffered this makes her own character became stubborn and cold.When using words embody the interpretation of dreams of steps, can according to your knowledge of the dreamer plus some reasonable inference, such as the above this dream can be explained:

In her family members, there was a man could be her father or mother, is a person of stubborn, very cold.She often is not be reprimanded, be scolded, so she felt very painful, she had to let oneself become indifferent, hemp

Wood, as the flesh head has been turned to stone.Then she found herself also became the kind of person who stubborn and cold.This character has affected her deeply, made her feel life is not happy, she is hard to establish close relations with others, friendship and love is not smooth.In her mind, she thinks it's all due to the experiences of childhood, due to her parents (because she still remember the dream, it still has influence on her.Specific effect how, can according to the psychology knowledge inference).

If the situation is checked, absolutely right, the little girl is sure to accept your explanation.

Words embody the advantages of the interpretation of dreams is:

The interpretation of dreams is compelling to the dreamer.Dreamer said a short dream, only experienced the interpretation of dreams could tell his current mental state, the present living conditions, childhood experience, marital status, personality and so on many aspects.This will surprise the dreamer and convincing interpretation of dreams.So, the interpretation of dreams for the dream of the psychological advice from the further analysis and the interpretation of dreams easily accepted by the dreamer.

We know that dreams have meaning but some people don't think so, a middle-aged man but disagree, he said: "the dream

What's the point?I said a dream to see how you can know my psychology?"

"At a time, I dreamed of a leader to our house to look for me, I will let children to buy 2 noodles.We talk over dinner.He gave me analysis economic situation."When asked his interpretation of dreams, this is when your dreams?He said recently.

It hit the can be used on the way of analysis.Interpretation of dreams said: "it is a dream to summarize the eagerness.You on the one hand, with his present status in society.Economic conditions are not satisfied with (guests buy 2 noodles), on the other hand, has high self expectation (leaders came to him).Your wife angry to you, think you. Nowadays, would have to leave you (this is the interpretation of dreams of inference).And, you according to your request for your child to shape, let the children go to don't care about his need and the desire to.But only buy 2 noodles, do you think you are not very painful, because you have your ways to resolve it."

The words embody obviously played a role for him, after the meeting, he said to the interpretation of dreams is: "actually I also very pain, career and family all have no."

Victims of another advantage is that can break through psychological defense of the dreamer.Many of the psychological conflict and contradiction within the operation, try to hide don't let the person know.And sometimes not uncover these secrets, his mental conflict cannot

To solve.In this case, understand the interpretation of dreams and hit the psychological consultant if using the method, can all of a sudden break in the dreamer mask to hide, hit the law what is the problem in his heart.On the contrary, if the interpretation of dreams process is very slow, release a little bit of dream interpretation of dreams, right, ask the dreamer dreams will have a chance to build a defense, so that the things in the heart not exposed.This as interrogator in criminal justice, take out your key evidence suddenly, exposing the prisoner when caught off-guard is really like.If interrogators to pull out your evidence a little partial, prisoners will have time to lies.In terms of psychology, hit the method is helpful for breakthrough to poll the dreamer.

People's psychological conflict, psychological problems, mostly to solve the problem of invalid of some kind of pain and efforts.Patients, such as: a forced to wash their hands in his subconscious mind, hand washing can be repeatedly washed."He had some one shouldn't or shouldn't do behavior some impulse", but in his mind, he can give himself forced to wash their hands to make a logical explanation, the most common explanation is afraid of dirty hands residual bacteria.

In order not to touch the pain, people subconscious will heavy defence, set to make his own consciousness not to touch the pain.Have a obsessive-compulsive disorder patients, he forced symptom is repeatedly to wash their hands, "what to wash away, wash clean" is this

The meaning of a compulsive behavior.In consciousness, his idea was wash hands dirty things, and that will be thoroughly wash all dirt not easily.But this behavior is a compulsive behavior, that is to say, subconsciously, he still has something (or experience or desire) to be cleared.But subconscious want to remove this stuff, is the root of the disease.

However, because of obsessive-compulsive disorder have a rigorous logic chain or even system.He system of the logic chain or as army responsiveness defensive ace, make each time to question the crux of psychological care exploration efforts have to be blocked.So it had great difficulty in treatment of obsessive-compulsive disorder.Interpretation of dreams at a time, dream and dream analysis, if can be directly into the root of the problem.Then you can avoid the seesaw battle of repeated treatment with a stalemate.

In the dreamer's subconscious, to remove what?In a conversation treatment.He spoke of a dream told the interpretation of dreams is the answer:

"My home is in the middle school buildings on the stairs.I'm with a foreigner, I found he was stealing my laptop and then I realized that he might be a spy, he showed very good looks, said to me: 'you finished', and if he stole my digital camera.I am afraid, want to police commissioner, police chief was my mother's appearance, to be held

I.If I was imprisoned for, will be isolated, because no one is willing to be held.Later, a female classmate and I play in a bridge, she seemed to abandon me, push me down.I found myself not fall into the river, but fell into a deep wet hole, a lotThe mouseUp to bite me."

Done after one or two simple associations, the interpretation of dreams for his dream did hit the type:

"Have you ever had sex in high school, but when you are passive participation.You are very afraid, fear to this kind of behavior.Also wonder if you have a problem, just have this happen.Do you think women included your mother will despise you.And you would have been trapped in the act of homosexuality."

His face rises very red, two hands kept in rub, like what to rub off.Slowly he raised his head and his eyes filled with grief."I have to save?"He asked eagerly.

Find the core of the problem, through a dream can make psychological counseling progress more smoothly.But hit the method also have disadvantages: interpretation of dreams is a need to have the rich experience in the interpretation of dreams and the psychological consulting experience, if the interpretation of dreams inexperience, would be easy to make mistakes, so make the dreamer to distrust the ability to interpret dreams.Also, if the interpretation of dreams has made a mistake

Explain, and chose the wrong explain itself.Is categorically, dreamer may believe that the wrong explanation, but the real meaning of the dream won't get interpretation.

And what we call experience, but is to outline some of the rules, not every fresh, vivid dream interpreters will be consistent with the existing experience, no understanding of dream interpretation of the dreamer sometimes have their own projection, interpretation of dreams of their own sexual repression tend to be interpreted a dream as a dream.We know Freud himself life interpretation of countless dreams, his experience is not a few.But he still let the dreamer to free association as far as possible, as much as possible to ensure that their interpretation of the dream is true.Otherwise, the rough words embody just mislead the dreamer, also mislead their interpretation of the dreamer.

Some people just learning to interpret dreams, tend to be sloppy arbitrary, look at the following example of xiao li is such a mistake

Day 1:

Xiao li is soon after the interpretation of dreams, because of the high savvy, so rapid progress.One day, one of her friends came to see her."What have you done lately dream?I'll give you analysis analysis?"Xiao li is very active.

Xiao li's friend told her such a dream:

"A elementary school classmate, and I sleep together in bed, I found the girl looks very beautiful, very moving, so I can't help gave her a kiss."

Xiao li a listen to, thinks he knows the meaning of the dream, and she hurried out the answer."From the dream, you have the obvious homosexuality."Xiao li is very safe to say.

Xiao li's friend zheng.The analysis is touched a nerve of her.Small D original xiao li's friendTo get marriedFor two years, the relationship between she and her husband has been bad, especially on the relationship is not harmonious.The reason was that the little D husband she didn'tA womanTaste, and she has also feel more happy and gay, get along with.

"Perhaps is really I don't know are gay.Hence the bad relationship with her husband, heterosexual, more willing to and gay friends."Small D agree with this explanation, and on the premise of dream conclusion to explain his own life.

Small D started in earnest attention to reports on homosexuality, think about the phenomenon of homosexuality, and intends to look into the gay community.

Small D emotional life in trouble at that time, out of instinct make grab any a little D, in her opinion can be solved

Way of the problem.So I have gay "ego identity", like a psychological suggestion will bring little D from now get out of the difficulty of psychology, but the real problem not solve, only from a plight into another trouble.

Small D with "if I'm gay confused" found a famous master of the interpretation of dreams.Master of interpretation of dreams of her dreams for her free association, and combined with the analysis of her psychological test, know that she is not gay.Her dream is the real meaning: I think I'm not feminine, she hope I can more feminine.Dream of the classmate, small D free association, is a very feminine, gentle, is very popular with the opposite sex.In the dream, the small D is hope I also like her.Dreams about characters are the dreamer part of their own personality, this part is suppressed, therefore does not often appear in the dreamer's personality.So little D dream of the rich woman flavour classmate, in her personality is very rich, feminine side, only this side have been repressed.And the meaning of the dream is in, the primitive tell small D, let her and integrate this side of his personality.

Interpretation of dreams are categorically, only relies on a "hit" obviously cannot achieve this effect, they still have other method, in this way, often is helpful to avoid the embarrassment of yourself on the spot was worn out.

Sometimes dreams can also be used words embody type complex.Such as you to the dreamer's life, personality, experience is very familiar with, or you release your own dream, even if the dream is very complex, you can still use their victims.Look at the following example: a youth to know is not the symbol of a lot of dreams, but he was very well analyzed their dream of a more complex.

"I sat down on a list of the MRT, the MRT in gallop.I suddenly discovered that I don't have enough fare, only five cents, then worry about how to solve the problem of the tickets, I saw my classmate is on the car, and he say "hello", he said, 'I am only 5 horn!'I had to reluctantly stood by.The first stop, then someone shouted: "XX team, get off!"Carriage of passengers go down a lot.Then I through the window and saw a car on the bus in guangzhou?(the student is in guangzhou), such as waiting to meet.MRT and continue to open, when the fellow classmates brought a stack of all kinds of tickets, tore off two pieces to me, and walked off.I wonder where is this ticket.Have a female attendant to check a ticket, the ticket is studied, and went away.After a while, she took his two tall man came, the two men immediately surrounded me, a woman is in keeping the door.Soon I want to stop, but I'm XiaBuQu..."

Because it is your own dream, so the young man is not very easy to make the analysis: "in the MRT gallop" refers to the

Learning to live in Beijing, because the MRT is common in Beijing.

"Don't have enough fare", refers to the physical quality closes nevertheless, cannot pass through sportsThe testTo university graduate smoothly

Industry.

"XX classmate also don't have enough money, and I am only the pentagon".XX classmate often failed in the sports, here is the symbol of sports didn't pass the exam."Only five Angle" said only 50 points.

"On the site's first station, the bus" not out."The classmate fake tickets", that classmate Zeng Hemeng about obtaining a get an impostor sports.

After the discovery of "fake tickets, two tall men surrounded me, a woman in keeping the door, and I can't stand in the purpose of the car."

Tall man symbol of sports teacher, "I surrounded" symbol, "the woman to the door," impression of tube in the middle school students administration are the female teacher, cheating in the exam is one tube administrative teacher card, can't graduate.Unable to leave the university, that is, the MRT.This is a very good interpretation of dreams.

Sometimes, you of the meaning of a complex dream generally understand, but some details is not clear, you can use a dream by intuition.

One boy dreamed that: "my father and mother are sent to a mental hospital, is my elder brother send them to.Mom and dad get car lock open,, and I ran away together."

"Sent to a mental hospital" means to treat them as crazy.Open the car lock means liberation, "escape" means secretly get rid of.But, in general, his brother is unlikely to his parents when the mental patient imprisoned, and her parents to escape at the mercy of his brother don't sneaking around.According to the experience of the interpretation of dreams, the dreamer with parents on behalf of themselves and their opposite sex friend, so it can be speculated that the boy now have a girlfriend, he is very like her, even in his elder brother this kind of person, is to love her "crazy".Estimated his elder brother was a conservative, serious and strong sense of authority, the dreamer some afraid of him.The dreamer secretly opened to imprison, escape the limit with the girl.Perhaps, he and his girlfriend in private sexual contact.

Interpreters when the interpretation of the out after the boy was surprised, because he never and people said his girlfriend, even

The interpretation of dreams, and I don't know.Surprised, he interpreters for those who don't know the details of the explained.

Sometimes, as long as you mean you know what a part by intuition speaks of the dreamer will suddenly enlighted, almost can understand all the meaning of dreams, is a man, one of his dreams: "dream of XX dead, wrapped in white cloth.Suddenly he lifted a hand, and I found it was my wife..."At that time due to the interpretation of dreams did not understand the meaning of the dream.So I just made a general "victims" : "you don't worry, it's not a bad omen.This is a question about you and your wife for some values of the dream, XX said an old, an old value was dead, and your wife life, never thought the man replied: "I understand. I know all the dream in what to say, you don't have to release the."

2. Layer upon layer peeling bamboo shoots type method of dream interpretation method layer upon layer peeling bamboo shoots is according to the order of the dream, or the most compelling part from my dream, or from any part of the beginning;On a certain part of the most impressive, sometimes dreamer can start with this part.Sometimes easier to part of a breakthrough, also can start from that part.

Layer upon layer peeling bamboo shoots type is generally a safer, more reliable way, it is not easy to mistake, because this way is to put all kinds of evidence gathered all the later to conclusions.Unlike this words embody type, only from a few details have to be

A lot of conclusions.

Which type is not the sort of dramatic effect layer upon layer peeling bamboo shoots.Sometimes before the interpretation of dreams is concluded, the dreamer had understand the meaning of the dream.This is a good thing, sometimes the dreamer himself come to the conclusion, the conclusion he more believe that this will help him improve understanding of yourself.But sometimes it's not good, if the dreamer is afraid of others know yourself, he will be in this time to stop talking about dreams, to avoid the interpretation of dreams is knowing yourself.

Layer upon layer peeling bamboo shoots type step is: put the dream into some parts, part of a part of the juggle explain edge to verify, explain and understand the background material, explain and make the dreamer.Interpretation of dreams to paraphrase this way, the whole process of dream interpretation is to interpret dreams together the process of looking for the meaning of dreams.

The analysis method of layer upon layer peeling bamboo shoots the most suitable dream that's hard to understand.

A lawyer 28 this year, he told a psychologist about his dream: "I see me sitting in an audi car, review groups of soldiers.They all cheered me enthusiastically "salute, psychological analysts asked:" what do you think this is the point?"

The lawyer replied, "no meaning, because I hateThe warAnd the army, I don't want to be a general, also do not like to be the focus of attention, be thousands soldiers stare, cheer or not.You from I told you about the career difficulties, just know I stand in front of the court in a case more difficult."

Psychological analysts: "yes, that's true, but it did not deny this is your dream, is you have written the plot and the fact that have a role to play your own dream.No matter how obvious contradiction, the dream must contain certain significance and what must be said.Now you tell me the dream of an audi and military cheering scene, what are you thinking about?"

"This is fun, now I see a picture of my 14 or 15 years old love.It is a portrait napoleon.He rode on a white horse, chi better in front of the army.It and dream is very similar, only the army not cheered him."

"This recall is very interesting.Tell me more about this painting, and interested in napoleon."Lawyer recalled, he was very shy, 14 or 15 years old and weak in the body, be afraid of a boy, he is very fond of the boy, and asked the boy into his microscope, but was turned down by the rough contemptuously.He regarded, and from then on he feverishly to read books about napoleon, collecting napoleon, fancies himself as napoleon.Until after college

To overcome the hero worship and fantasy.

Psychological analysts say: "have you forgotten it, but another, it decided to many of your behavior and feeling, and awake during the day another hidden well, you still want to, want to be praised, want to have power, another you talk in a dream last night.But why would you do this dream last night, yesterday have what important thing?"

"Nothing, bland.I go to the office work, and collect some information, for dinner, a movie, then go to bed."

"That doesn't explain why you would sit in the evening the audi, please tell me in detail, such as what did you do in the office."

"Oh, I remember now...But it can't be have any relationship with dreams....Ok, or tell you in detail.When I went to see my boss, he is a lawyer of the company's largest shareholder, I gather information, the law for him he found I made some mistakes.He stare at me sternly and said: 'I am really surprised, I think you can do better than this.'at that moment I was very shocked, at the same time, a thought crossed my mind, I don't want to be fired, thought that he won't leave me in the future

To use.But I told myself that just entertain foolish ideas.Everyone made a little mistake.In the afternoon I have forgotten about it."

"How do you later?Some feel nervous or upset?

"No, not at all.On the contrary, I'm just tired and want to sleep again.I find it very hard work, and at the time of leaving the office after work to repent, feel very happy."

"So when the last important thing, is going to the movies.

"Yes, I am very appreciate this film.In fact, still crying."

"Why crying?"

"The first is for the sake of the protagonist in the film, poverty, and pain, and crying for his victory.So I don't remember ever seen so I moved by the film."

"And then you went to bed, sleep.And see yourself sitting in the audi car, accept troops cheered.You do this dream because when you were a kid was very shy, shy, and not popular.From the previous clinical experience of inference

This is mostly due to the influence of your father, father is proud of his success, but so can't close to you, and no feelings, and I do not know to give encouragement.You mentioned that matter, today was rejected by a boy, just far-fetched.Already deeply hurt your pride, and this episode just to make you more convinced that the achievements of never going to be a father, never consider as what, you will always be the person you admire act refuses.You have what way?Had to escape into the fantasy, fantasy you can achieve you think cannot be achieved in real life.In the fantasy world, no one can come in, no one can deny you are napoleon, great hero, for ten million people and yourself, this is perhaps the most important act - in favor of and worship.As long as you can keep these illusions, can avoid because you are in contact with the outside their external reality, from the inferiority of your pain.Then you go to college.Start is less dependent on the father, and some with your studies, feel you can start again and have a good foundation, and then, for your own 'naive' dream to be ashamed, so you are no longer a dream;Think you is toward becoming a gentleman man's road...However, as we have seen, the new confidence, some properties of self-deception.You are very fear before every examination.Do you think that as long as there are other men in the world, is not a girl really care for you, you forever

Much afraid boss criticism.We'll look at things on the day of your dream.You try to avoid happen again - your boss blame you.You start to feel again the old feeling is inferior to others, but you put it aside.You don't have felt uneasy and frustrated, but feel very tired.Then you saw a film, it touched the old dream of you, hero is a man despise before on the screen, there is no as a young man, then the savior can praise can admire countries do you think of themselves as the human admire, is cheering hero, just like when you were young the daydream."

After a strip bamboo shoot type analysis, the lawyer finally understand, he didn't really give up before back into the glorious fantasy, he did not put that he returned to the realm of fantasy burn the bridge, but at any time as long as reality is disappointed and terror, began to return to fantasy.In himself not to understand this fact, however, instead more risk of what he is afraid of, make oneself still naive, make oneself not mature, and cannot be affected by a people and their newborn.

3. Hit the hybrid method of dream interpretation and layer upon layer peeling bamboo shoots are the two extremes, and the interpretation of dreams in the actual interpretation of a dream, more is a hybrid of these two approaches.That is to say, some part of the meaning of hit the interpretation of dreams is a dream, to inspire the dreamer, let the dreamer about events, ideas, etc.As according to the interpretation of dreams, then hit another one

Part, by association, or let the dreamer yourself make sense of the another part.

One of the girls had such a dream: "my mother and sister take the MRT, two roads out of the car after arrival.A path to a arch, arch have security doors, security doors after seems to have a green leaves, the other a path to the train station..."

Interpretation of dreams analysis: "take the MRT symbol here with your mom and sister lives together.Two roads out of the car after arrival means you are now facing life choices.Dream the two roads will symbolize the two roads in your life.The first road arch, security doors, and green leaves.Security door symbol obstacles that this road, then, in your real life, it is to point to which road?"

"I would like to point out that the road, said security doors do go abroad is difficult, arch reminds me off at the airport, as for the green leaves, I remember my father go abroad after said greening is very good, shoes can not to wear a week still very bright and impressed me deeply."

"So said at home at the railway station?Because the train is common in China."

"Yes, we went to the train station...Then came to a place, like the hotel front desk.We are at the edge of the private roomHave a meal.Eating peanuts all brine.My boyfriend to eat chicken wings and green vegetables.A little sister in a dish of peanuts all, big, but in the tablecloth not trading, there are two girls want to peanuts all the somebody else not to change, she also wants to feel dirty didn't change...."

Interpretation of dreams analysis: "dinner on behalf of the living standards.Brine is peanuts all represent a lower standard of living.Your boyfriend can bring you a higher standard of living, chicken wings and green vegetables..."

"Is not very high, in the dream I dreamed someone indrinking, that means a higher standard of living."

"Yes, your sister want to change a partner, but do you think that also is only change to a dish of peanuts all;Of course some people don't want to change also change!But you still think of change a better boyfriend is unwilling to do such a thing, because of "dirty", is contrary to your moral standards."

The girl finally admitted: "is it true,..."......

In fact, in the interpretation of dreams flexible form, rather than in a certain way.When using high-tech, practical interpretation of dreams don't need to think in any way.You can change the interpretation of dreams step at any time according to the situation at that time.