Blessed are those who dream of wisdom

Colorful dream world, bring us a lot of interesting things.Let us become a you don't have to spend a penny in the world of tourists, let we can go to the dream to travel to any place.

In addition to enjoy the miracle of dream bring us content, we also hope to have more understanding of dreams, hope the dream can bring us more good things.

This is not entertain wild hope, because dream can give us more.Dreams are our good teachers and wise friends, understand it, can enhance our mental health and improve our psychological quality, and even lead to a change in our whole life is enough.

Dream always receive the outside information, analyze situations, and through the dream can convey the subconscious "thoughts".Its "thinking" is very valuable to us, because:

First, in the layer of consciousness, the way we think is abstract and general, observation of things is selective.For example, when we listen to a person, the main focus on the content of listening to him.As much as can pay attention to the tone of his voice is strange, etc.And in the subconscious, the "primitive" like a camera, it will include all the details that person every word with tone, record every subtle move.So, the other party any abnormal a little action will attract the attention of "primitive".That is to say, "primitive" to people than conscious we careful observation of the things more comprehensive.So he may find some of our forgotten or not to be taken seriously.

Second, people are senior animals, is the language, thinking, but also it is because of these, people also become more cunning, hobby in some good things under dry ugly things.Qian said that: the lion tiger want to eat, just eat them.Never say some first why do I want to eat you, why do you want to be me a reason to eat.But people are different, it is one of the key people, even under the guise of the name of justice, justice, tell him to eat people.People cheat yourself too much more, clearly hate his father, but think of my father has a heritage, need to lie to myself I have curry favor with the sense of responsibility, I have a filial piety, so I will so good to him;Clearly is feel richHer husband was having an affair, but afraid to debunk the truth instead of being abandoned by their husbands, and lose material comforts, cheat himself said her husband don't go home is too busy working.But, in the heart, "primitive" is more face to face with the reality, just like he knew the truth.As a result, the primitive can tell us a lot of truth, makes us more realistic, don't escape from reality so as to rationally solve the problem.

Third, the "primitive" is closer to the instinct of a man, it's more know their real needs.Due to the influence of some fake like and some ideas of interference, often don't know what you really want, just blindly pursue something everyone in the pursuit of society, can't see their inner desire.

May be compared to QianHai interpretation of dreams, from the surface of the dive, dive deep down, down the ghost of the unknown world, from then get pearl - this pearl is knowledge and wisdom.

And a man who knows the dream will use of knowledge and wisdom, so that they blessed is the man, displays in:

1. You can help others improve their subconscious mind will also secretly affect the person's consciousness, as if the house we can hear the wind in the trees, the grass in the autumn will break into the house, viper occasionally climb into the house.Sometimes even their strange: "what's wrong with me today?Such a small thing so excited?"These reasons not to be found in the consciousness.Because the reason in the subconscious.Even the idea of "I how so tired today, don't want to say a word."And, in fact, for many people to send a fire on this day, and he never realized, so this becomes a tired feeling.When feeling tired is false, anger is his true feelings.

So dreams can reveal a person's real emotional state and mental state, so as to solve psychological contradiction, dissolve, make the right choices in life, that leads people to happiness.A high school student, it often love to do such a dream:

I often dream of along the danger of a ladder, walking on high, or where a high jump around, with these dreams are afraid of emotions.

During the day, his life and study are good, teachers are highly of him, also be valued by students.He didn't feel oneself have nothing to fear.But according to the dream, he is afraid of, he is afraid he can't keep this superior position, afraid of which day accidentally stumble and fall to the ground.

Can explain and convince him: "what will matter is not victory over others, not always lead, but to get things done.People value is not valued by the teacher by students value, if a man put his own value based on the opinions of others, that is very dangerous.People should replace the approval of others with confidence.No matter what other people think of you, also do not deliberately to maintain "high", and should focus on developing yourself, enjoy life."

Like again, there was a time when the high school students found that he no longer dreamed of a beautiful landscape.Instead often dreamed of playground, dreamed to play video games, watching their scores a higher and higher, or climb from down to up the slide and so on.Interpretation of dreams, he said that he know himself this time too much fame, so the world is no longer a garden for him and became a showdown.So he adjust oneself, let oneself do not disdainful of external achievements.

Such as again, is also an example of students, there is a high school student studying lessons for entrance examination, one night he dreamed that he was abdominal incision, belly was hollowed out.It shows his real guts, he received a serious damage to the vitality, he should take it easy, should mix, some entertainment, otherwise there will be dangerous.Han dynasty great writer Yang xiong is said to have dream of stomach was split, five zang-organs flow to the ground, the results soon gave birth to a serious illness and death.The high school students if they don't pay attention to adjust, also just blindly hard to read, or at least my life danger.

2. Can ZeShanErCong in our life, often need to make many choices, such as: choose a career, choose a wife or husband, choose do not do something, and so on.Due to the outside world has too much unknown, so the choice is very important also very difficult.Sometimes a choice to get blank brains affect the happiness of his life.After we choose which to buy a stock, for example, it is impossible to know the stock in the future will rise fall, how much will rise, because the country's economic environment, stock management policy, the other shareholders of decision making, and so on are all can't completely sure.Enter oneself for an examination a college, it's hard to know whether this major in the four years is still hot.You are really prefer what kind of job?What should I do?And so on.When you face difficulties that choice, will also help you to think seriously about dreams, make its choice, and it is almost always a more correct choices.This is because the dream more clearly to your heart, it know what you truly want to do, what is real need, what is the real hope.And it can be concluded from the many details about the future of judgment, as seen by the wind blows the leaf blades of can determine the arrival of autumn.Look at the example below:

There is a girl in the university graduation, there are two units to choose from, a unit of fame is bigger, the other a slightly smaller, treatment is also the former slightly higher.But a unit of work before more tension, pressure, after a more free.She's hard to decide, in the evening she had a dream, dream of a foreign enemy invasion, enemy planes flying in and out in the bombing.But she is in a kiln, or shelter, and sisters play poker.

This dream is very easy to explain, mean, if she went to the former one unit, the position is higher (on the ground, of course, is higher than in the kiln "status"), but that will be nervous.If she is in a unit, the position is lower, but there was no tension, can also to live comfortably (poker) refers to a comfortable easy life.In between, should choose the latter (because in the dream she is staying at kiln CARDS).

Again, for example, there is a boy, he has his girlfriend, but he found a girl, though not his girlfriend now but beautiful temperament.He don't know which one should be chosen, he dreamed a dream for two girl, a beautiful, another temperament.His analysis of the two girls represent his girlfriend and another girl he some fall in love.In the dream, in fact, he has also made a choice, choose the temperament that girl rather than his girlfriend.If things continue, there is no change, the owner will be in love in the dream in a crisis, because he has abandoned his girlfriend now in my mind, is bound to give up one day in his behavior.

Dream convey information is "primitive", the "primitive" there, it and the connection is more direct, like sensitive reaction of the animal in nature.It is open to environmental information is more.Choice is actually a rely on the known conditions of operation.Reference "primitive" information, it means make the operation more fully known conditions.So make a choice, obviously is correct.Listen to the voices of the dream, it will help us better to make a choice.Take a dream example below:

Liu mei has set a wedding date with her boyfriend.To see the day approaching, liu mei busily preparing actively and exhausted, in my heart there is always a tired, anxious mood.May be too tired, or too excited, liu mei so to explain himself.One night, liu mei had such a dream:

"I go somewhere with her boyfriend, I walked and walked, so a person.I went to the one in front of the house, the house looks very wide, good-looking.But look closely, I found the house is made of mat.At this moment I feel very nervous, as if what I made wrong, someone will come and catch me.So I startedescape, she fled and heart was full of panic.Like my mother and I together at this moment, I hurry to ask a mother: "if I were caught, what will happen?"Mother said" will be sentenced to life imprisonment.'"

Liu mei from dream, just like that.The words "life sentence" has been lingering in her mind.

Actually, this is "primitive" to give her a hint."Primitive" is told liu mei his feelings of marriage.House on behalf of the marriage, in this marriage looks very good on the surface, but in essence, it is not solid (symbol) with MATS here, you wouldn't know, but she will discover the truth for yourself and afraid.If she walked into the marriage, it means she like a prisoner, not free again in the future.

Liu mei with the help of a psychologist, to understand the "primitive" code.She borrowed "primitive" reminds, began to look at your upcoming marriage, she found the marriage exists many problems, according to the general standard, though, they are a well-matched couple.But why I fear?She finally realized that the source of fear.She is eager to marriage, because lonely and under various external pressure and their fragile, she felt she must escape into the castle of marriage, its life as a result, she was afraid to scrutinize the warm harbour or imprison the cell of the mind.

Yu Shiliu may use the power of the "primitive", broken off his engagement courage.And have the communication, and the "primitive", liu mei found myself a little the feeling of strength.

Actually the strength and wisdom of "primitive" is always with us.But we are not used to, also won't, and even can't communicate with it.So we must pay attention to the "primitive" letter to us, it will be like parents treat children give directions for you.

3. Sometimes can improve character although different people do the same dream, but the character of different people, often dream is not the same.See below several properties of the dream, through the dream to see the person's character, the dreamer can according toInterpretation of dreamsTo improve your personality:

For example, oftenDreaming that I could flyMan, full of youthful spirit, personality, cheerful, confident.But this kind of person often is not steadfast, do things carefully enough.It may be talented people, the praise for people, but doing things, often because of lazy sloppy, lead to not work well.Their strong creativity and imagination is rich, but they let themselves go, naughty lazy.Often do this kind of dream, therefore, should constantly remind ourselves that do things carefully, feet on the ground.To prevent their real dare to fantasy, treat people to strictly avoid boast, pride.

"Flying" and "borrow" fantasy escape reality meaning.Some people love to do such a dream: "first, chased by a terrible thing in immediately to be catch up with a time of crisis, the hero suddenly flew."Do these dreams are mostly intellectuals, with their way of life is to escape.And their way of escape, and is addicted to fantasy, or indulge in thought, the results on the surface is very confident people, in fact, he's just afraid of competition.If the interpretation of dreams to understand their own personality of truth, the "flying" if you know the self-acceptance, "I do is currently the status quo, I am not as good as I thought, great.But it also did not concern.Now I have more understanding to oneself, also had the chance to improve character, this is not a good thing?"So on the basis of acceptance, he can consciously improve their character.For example, if I found myself addicted to fantasy, to remind myself: don't think so far, let's think about how to do right now.When he found himself to escape difficulties, no matter what reason, should be inwardly warning: those reasons are excuses, I should not escape difficulties, should be to find a way to overcome this.If such insist for a long time, there are defects of character will change.

Again, for example, often dream of desolation, character often aloof.For example, dream of desert, or bare vastness;Dream in an empty room or at the ruins;Dreaming that I am a stone or becomeThe deadAnd so on, all of this is the symbol of life lack of energy.This kind of people usually afraid of contact with reality, afraid of contact with people, only willing to hide in their own fantasy world.Let outsiders see is false self, a life under the mask of self.Because do not accept outside information of reality, and not to the outside world, so they gradually withered.

This is a signal of danger, if they want to self-renewal, that only depend on oneself, struggled to make an effort to face reality, express the true feelings, to establish contact with the world.So, to make breakthrough in life.

This person's insecurity is very strong, they find it hard to trust others, also easily hurt by others.They elected a caring and attentive people do friends, would be helpful for their development.If this kind of person by understanding the character of the true nature of the dream, although before afraid to contact with people, but in order to save his life, should force yourself to communicate with others every day at least, force yourself to have a chance to find friends to talk, to avoid her into the die life.Or you can also learn art, such as painting, music, art, etc., can express the mood, emotion, mood, if such insist for a long time, also can make the character to the good.

oftenDream heckAnd dreamed ofBeing chasedDrive or dream to fight with others often paranoid personality, stubborn.Due to the paranoia, they always doubt others work against yourself.Because stubborn, often conflict with others.So will the dream heck, namely the wicked;Dream of being chased and combat, means being threatened and forced to fight.

Paranoid personality, stubborn people can speak such words: "I really mean person many."But to think about it, why SIMS must gather around you?Good: there is a saying in order to get the respect of others must first respect yourself, respect others.Therefore, at the time of getting along with people, if you glaring at him, he also glared at you.When you put others when the enemy, they will naturally against you.You first attack others, others will naturally calculation for you.So if you want to improve their have to give up their own prejudices and mistrust of the others.

For bigotry, however, because they don't want to responsible for yourself, when out of the question, willing to put the blame on others.So, want to let them trust others, be kind to others is very difficult.

Is this kind of person, must decide for themselves responsible for, don't blame others, then can attain trust and good to others, to give up prejudices.

Dreamed that he was difficult to walk on the twists and turns, the muddy road, or in the face of the deep, unable to move forward, or dream of scared could not move, dreamed of doing things fail;Dream of others for their apathy, etc., in the prompt dreamers depressed depression, lack of confidence.

This kind of person should often encourage yourself, can do it with your previous success stories, said to himself, "I trust you" "you are very good" and so on to develop self-confidence.Don't have to care about if fail.Continuously absorb experience will be bound to succeed from failure, remind yourself is more important than the results of the process of doing things, learn to appreciate in the process of fun.

Some people feel very strange for their own dreams, in dreams and waking themselves opposite character.Some people are brave, but in the dream is very timid.Sometimes the reality is very kind man in my dream but hate others.In fact, the contrast between dream and reality there is a reason:

The first may be, perhaps in reality he is in disguise, but the dream is true.A timid person, may be deliberately let look brave, perhaps in order to overcome their own cowardice deliberately take unnecessary risks.If this is the case, the dreamer need not deliberately to brave in our daily life, so as not to increase the psychological pressure, and should choose a more suitable for his way of life.

There is also a possibility is that instead of dream and reality character may be due to remind the dreamer dreams, your character too much to a certain direction, should develop the character on the other side of the reality.For example, is really brave, should learn how to carefully.Good is good, but to face up to oneself, hate it to others and so on.Such as monk dreamed that he killed a wicked swing, it may be said he was the development of the character of the power of evil, and is not just in the weakness of the good influence the wicked.

In a word, no matter what kind of personality do, if through the guidance of the dream, improve the character of it is can be done.But we must know the saying: "a leopard cannot change his spots", that is to say, character is not easy to change, so do not figure a day two days work, and should take out the spirit of yu gong yi shan, constantly to do your own thing.Believe that after a long time, you will find my personality will be greatly improved.

4. Help improve interpersonal relationship "primitive" to comment to judge people around you.Through the interpretation of dreams, we can learn his judgment, so as to help us understand the people around you.On the basis of understanding people around, to improve interpersonal relationship.

Like a man had a dream, a dream of his two friends partners kill another friend.He witnessed a murder and two people decided to expose.

Before the dream, one of the"killMake "has come to this gentleman, in words expressed dissatisfaction with the" victim ", suggests that he is going to fight with "another murderers" adverse "victim".The gentleman didn't care about, his subconscious mind pay attention to this matter, in the evening to give him a messenger to him the matter informed the "victim".

As a result of "primitive" sensitive and attentive, he can notice the many fine feature of others and obscure words and deeds, and according to the experience from the small place to infer its character.We have such experience, sometimes we first don't like him, no one even believe that this person is very good, but my heart still don't like it.This is, in fact, according to some details, judge this man is not good.We usually don't notice these details.For example, when a person is lying, his pupil shrinks.But "primitive" can feel the look in the eyes of the pupil change, when a person and you speak miosis, "primitive" feels he is unreliable."Primitive" this kind of judgment is we say at ordinary times of intuition.Generally people don't want to believe that the intuitive, because intuition say a reason, but it has been proved that intuition is usually right.

Have personal he fell in love with a girl, but he has not any idea to each other is what kind of attitude to him, so one night, while his classmates party chat, looking for a chance to the other party made a hint, but each other quietly.The next day, he made an excuse to this female student dormitory to chat, and led to the dream.Results the girl spoke her dream last night, it is a dream let him pleasantly surprised.Originally, the dream told him that the girl has the right to him for a long time.

5. Let the dreamer's mind some looks terrible dreams, such as dream of loved ones die.We wake up, the dreamer and worry, afraid of this really happen.In fact, the dream of the surface of the real meaning and significance is different.Dream of dead relatives is not necessarily a bad omen, sometimes it is said by relatives represent something away.For example, a recent graduate of college students, dreamt that his father died, after the interpretation of dreams, found that his father's life of poverty.The dreamer to symbol of poverty with his father's death.Because the day before going to bed, the dreamer get message for their graduates has been settled, the unit has a high income.Therefore, the dream but is said by the "poor" will have already left his home, this is a happy dream.

There are also a significant number of people also believe that the dream is good or ill luck omen.So when they dream about bad things, will let them suspect, uneasy.Through scientific interpretation of dreams, to be able to remove their doubts, you can also eliminate superstition.This is like a child in the middle of the night to see a white shadow, thought it was a ghost, scared to death.Smart parents won't let the children away from the white shadow far, and will take him to see what was in the white shadow.Also, the interpretation of dreams can make you see what it is.See, superstition will explode.

Something is easy to cause superstition and fear of the unknown.When people do not understand the thunder and lightning, people think it is the heaven of tripterygium wilfordii on cut, with big appeared for people to close to ray or electricity is very terrorist.When people understand the discharge between the ray is cloud, people not only no longer mention tripterygium wilfordii, and people are also trying to his own power to use, let this once terrible thing flows into every family of services.People asleep beside the electricity, no fear, to enjoy the benefits of electricity.

But the dream can cause superstition and fear.It is superstition and fear, it is also because people don't understand the meaning of it.People think that it is a bad one million head, will bring disaster.But if you know the interpretation of dreams in psychological science technology, understand the meaning of your dream, it is the same as people know the thunder is not terrible.

In fact, only on the surface of the ridiculous strange dreams, and, in fact, under the surface meaning of the dream, to hide the real meaning is not absurd.Dream is just with the help of symbol, the meaning into strange dream.If we know how to analyze dreams, explain the dream, you can know the real meaning of the dream.That generally does not predict the future, but the current psychological status of instructions for you, can let you know that you now state of mind, character, etc., is of great help to you to improve your psychology.

Most horrible dream actually has a good meaning, look at the following Mrs Meng in a dream:

Mrs Meng sister and dream of walking through a bridge.First she goes, her sister behind.The bridge collapsed suddenly, my sister fell into the river.She was frightened, quickly to save her sister.But the water flow too nasty, her sister to get involved in vortex was drowned.She burst into tears in sorrow.

After she woke up, I very worry about it.Worried about what will happen to sister really.Psychologist after hearing this dream, said happily: "too good, congratulations to you, I am happy for you."

The psychologist is not schadenfreude, his analysis is based on.Originally, Mrs Meng was do psychological counseling, but she didn't have the psychological barrier, just hope through psychological counseling to improve his character and her relationship.Her character has two sides, one side is very independent, dependent on the other side and is very strong, the main cause of her family conflicts dependence is too strong, the problems accordingly.

Mrs Meng sister personality dependence is very strong.Interpretation of dreams psychologist explained that her dream is not a dreadful omen, but in the dream, is a symbol of the transition from one stage to another phase, a symbol of her character will have a bigger change.This change is "sister fell down."

Easy to see the actual symbol of her own character and sister of similarities, dependence is strong.Sister drowned this dream reality meaning is refers to drowning her own personality will no longer be overly dependent.It is a dream and the actual sister has nothing to do.Dream just said "your character will have a larger change, you will no longer rely too much on others.Although you are not used to save sister symbol (a dream of losing old character not used), but, this change will happen."

Dream is not portend an inauspicious, terror, similar dreams a lot, also look at the following two cases: dream a dream dreamed that he killed a man, Mr His house to see the dead body, but found that the dead is not others, is yourself.The killed his appearance is very ugly.

And killed a woman dream is not others, is her own, is a dagger inserted in her chest.She is very angry, but that the murderer that this is just an operation.She dreamed that he fell to the ground, his killer anatomy.At this time, she looked at the murderer himself stood open heart, suddenly she understood not be killed.

Both dreamDream of murderAnd the dead, really scary, but in fact as it was true that dream, the realistic significance of the dream is very good.

The first dream, the gentleman himself killed an ugly.Kill means to eliminate something, killed an ugly himself on his behalf to eliminate some disadvantages, some ugly psychological.

In the second dream: the lady in their first also don't understand "killer" of goodwill.Then she knew that the murderer killed anatomy is not her, but that should be eliminated, she is sick of her character.

In short, the dreamer knows his real meaning of the dream, even if had fear of dream, they are not scared.They think it is a dream of good symbolism, such a thought, would be reassuring.

6. Help can reflect the psychological counseling because dreams, so often from dream to a psychiatrist to understand, treat people with heart disorder, proved very effective.For example.

Zhang ran about this year s, her pale face, the skin white and some not harmonious, and also recently always unprovoked vomit, but she made several physical examination to the hospital, the results didn't find out what disease, psychologists for this kind of situation let she spoke about her dream:

Her first look at a comic book on the floor, the strip is not ordinary comics, because the portrait film movement, the heroine of the story to climb embedded with full erected glass wall, and she crawled a few strange men.Well, it seems that they like to steal something.As if they were found at this moment, the heroine also want to go to the flight and then a few men.But that a few men easily climbed over the wall, and the heroine how to also can not turn in the past, she looked with between them.At the same time, her arms holding a deadbaby。

This dream reflects the sticking point of the girl's psychological trauma, is she wanted to "spit" feeling, to your chest.

This is clearly a virginity,pregnancyAnd dream about abortion.The dream of comicA womanThe male is zhang ran themselves.This is what her own experience, and can't admit that you are so the unpleasant and painful experience projection on others.

According to zhang ran his, she once and men had a deviant behavior."Climb over the wall to steal what" refers to the deviant behavior, and "erected glass" symbolizes the penis and sexual intercourse, there will be a "dangerous", when danger comes, man walked away, in the "easy" and women are in danger.What is the risk?A woman's arm holding a dead baby.This is the symbol of abortion.Pregnancy and abortion, the result is a "baby" death, analysis here can say "dream phase to light".The girl named zhang ran and what people have sex, but the consequences of pregnancy and abortion she was the only one.That a shame dare not talk to others, and this fear, helplessness, made her like a terrier in throat.So her reaction is vomiting, she wanted very much to your chest, easy life from now on.

Psychological doctor through dream realized that the girl was reluctant to things, and then by instilling way finally let her psychological to untie the knot, listened to the psychological doctor's words, the girl feel relaxed a lot, under the psychological doctor to help, she finally brave in the face of it, and organize it, buried up, she finally came out from the shadows of yesterday.

Visible some dream is very important, it is often a deep psychological content, reflects the dreamer and the dream itself and can be used as a way of psychological counseling and treatment, so no matter what, should give it a try, because it is worth trying, and only you tried, will really know how to use.