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This phenomenon, and many other different dream.We can observe a mirage phenomenon with hundreds of people.Rainbow phenomenon, tides, and never could be together to watch the same dream.Although we can use the electroencephalogram (eeg).Measurement methods such as eye judge whether people are dreaming, but we can never know what he dreamed.Therefore, further research to prove the meaning of dreams or dream, can rely on the dreamer's self observation or introspective method.If through introspection and explain the process, we found a meaningful dreams, this question is answered.
However, introspection and explanation will not reliable?In the study of psychology, introspective method is among the first method to be used, but later abandoned the psychology method, this method still!The day is not valued.Reason is the introspective method has its limitations.Introspection on the dream also have many limitations, this includes:
1.Interference.Introspection activity can interfere with the ongoing psychological activity.When in half waking half sleep, if hard introspection to memory the dream, the dream will cease, and people will wake up.
2.Deception.If a man tells a fabricated false dreams, or based on his own dream, we can't see it directly, also is not easy to judge true and false.
3.Forgotten.Dreaming when people can't tell or record their own dreams, people can only be told in after waking up to dream, and this is actually a dream.
Dream is easy to forget, so people tell dreams just some clips of the real dream.
4.Can't repeat.Most of the dream is a one-off, they appear once, then never appeared.A dream to be repeated, but we can't intentionally let it repeat.We can't say: "the dream last night didn't see clear, let me to dream again today."
5.It is difficult to control.The vast majority of people could not control their own dreams.In the natural sciences have such principles: believe that only more than two people at the same time observe the same event.And a phenomenon must be under the same conditions can be repeated.If according to this principle, the dream is impossible to become the object of scientific research.Dreams cannot be seen by two people at the same time, and cannot be repeated.
In order to study the dream, we must expand the above principles.We can change like this: two or more people observe similar events have credibility, can be in the form of similar recurring phenomenon has credibility.
In addition, we should also have some new method of introspection.In order to gain understanding of the dream, the author USES the three new introspective method.
1 natural introspective method.
Let dream about or pictures of such means to describe the dream.
2 introspection imprinting method.
With the different people dream as circumstantial evidence or materials.
3 control introspective method.
Control some conditions for introspection.After eating pickle, for example, look to whether do dream of drinking water.Such as, have trained people to control the dream.
These new introspective method can according to the following principles to ensure reliability:
A, if people tell about a dream without cheating motivation, he reported the introspection to have credibility.Is the significance of this principle, if the dream of people don't want to deceive us, his words are credible.
So how can you tell about a dream no deception?It can judge from the following aspects.
1.If dreams about it will not bring real benefits to those who tell the dream, then his introspection, the report is unlikely to have a cheat to have credibility.
"Were ·; Feng Yi biography" is an example.Ask Liu Xiu Feng Yi world situation.Feng Yi said that now the world is no Lord, advised Liu Xiu acceded to the emperor.Liu Xiu then about his dream: "last night I dream take red dragon god."In ancient Chinese mind,Dream of the dragonOr heaven all indicate the dreamer will become emperor, then Feng Yi explains the dream suggests Liu Xiu command to do the emperor, Liu Xiu also agreed to acceded to the throne.
It is a dream for Liu Xiu is very beneficial.Really want to do the emperor, because Liu Xiu but according to the Chinese moral tradition, he must try to delay again, until the emperor has made a strong reason to make he can't refuse to accept.Dream is a powerful reason, is one of the best excuse for him to accept the emperor advice.A lot of this kind of circulating in the history of Chinese dream, credibility is very low.This kind of dream can not be used as a proof.
2.If tell it has a harmful effect on about those who dream dreams, or contains the story would not like to expose the content of the dream, then his introspection, the report is unlikely to have a cheat to have credibility.
For example, a farmer said that he have a dream when the emperor, which was killed by the emperor.
His dream has high credibility.
Again, exposed if dreams are not willing to let people know the psychological contents, such as resentment for relatives.Not moral sex drive and so on, the dream is certain to lodge.
Some female college students on the road chatting to a first saw the male students told a dream: "a man to give meGive or take an injection.I'm a little afraid of, the man said, it doesn't matter, eat the pills do not have a thing."
The meaning of the dream is: the man want to intercourse with her, she is afraidpregnancy, so the man said to eat contraceptive medicine do not have a thing."Obviously the female students are not willing to to a new understanding of the opposite sex revealing their sexual life, so the dream also have credibility.
3.If he is a very honest about the dream, the introspection of report have credibility.
If, instead, about the dream like grandstanding, show off, and his dream credibility is bad.Because he may have deliberately put the dream more bizarre "adaptation", in an effort to attract the attention of others.
4.If about those who dream to dream without a very fixed beliefs, he reported the introspection to have credibility.
If the dreamer is firmly believe the dream is a kind of harbinger of this belief, he is likely to report some dream accurately predict the future.And in fact may be so, when an event happens, many in memory of his dreams to find a dream and it seems to have a relationship, and inadvertently change the dream, make it seemed to be omens.
Believe that dream theories or beliefs of other people is also easy to unconsciously distort dream, with his own theory of faith.
Second, if tell dreams people lack of the ability of making false dreams, he reported the introspection to have credibility.
Children dream report is credible, because they are almost impossible to make a false dreams and don't get caught.
Don't know any scientific knowledge and theory of dreams, the report is a complex and suit some theory of dreams, then we decided that this dream has credibility.
For example, a completely don't understand the theory of Freud's dream, has reported a typical of "formed by the condensation of the dream, has credibility.
Three, if the dream is a dream when wake up after the report, he reported the introspection to have credibility.About the dream nearer the time from the time of the dream, the higher the credibility.
Because we have a dream forget very quickly, so in the report just waking dream can greatly reduce the forgotten.If a man tells a height months or even years before the dream, so he tells credibility is extremely low.Because in such a long time, the dream of most of the details have been lost.If the record just I woke up the dream, there is also the record credibility.
Fourth, if the dream of form and content in accordance with the general characteristics of dreams, is the introspection report has credibility.
For example, most dreams are mainly composed of visual image, there are few long conversations.Then someone report said he was in the dream to see what it is credible, and he said he was in a dream to listen to other people for hundreds of words is not to be trusted.Mathematical calculation ability is low in general, a dream, if someone says he accurately calculate the complex math in the dream is not to be trusted.
However, if the dream of people say a lot of things the dreamer is blind, dream capability of calculation of the dreamer is a mathematician, the introspection report will not be able to say not to be trusted.
Five, if have similar dreams to confirm each other, increase the credibility of the dream reports.Confirm the dream, the more the higher the credibility.
If in the past, no one report dreaming about the color of things, everyone said dream is black and white, only one report says, "I had a color dream," we are not trusting of his report.When many people say that they do after color dream, we can believe that a definite color dreams.In general, after all, is unlikely to have so many people said the same lies.
The plot of the dream can also support each other.For example, someone reported that his dream was forced to catch, he wanted to run but can't run, then woke up.If other people also reported similar plot, the dream reports have credibility.
The structure of the dream will be able to confirm each other.Report, for example, someone she had two dream, the two opposite dream.One is she and her boyfriend before standing on the boat, is around the sun is shiningThe sea;One is she standing alone in the sea, is going to be submerged.
Looks like the two dream the same dream than two parts, through the comparison between them, illustrates such a topic, the past happiness and lonely today.So, the fact is that so?Dreams will take the way of the contrast?
More than once if we found that the contrast before and after the dream, the dream we can certainly do have such a structure.
6, if the content of dreams and dreams of stimulation and life event correlation, then his introspective reports have credibility.
1.If the content of the dream and the dreamer within when dreaming of external stimuli, has credibility.
Sleep, for example, to hear the bell ringing, the dreamer wakes up in a moment, said the dream to seetempleSightseeing tower bells ringing.Eat again, such as, a dream, a little later woke up to find himself very hungry.
2.If the content of the dream and the dreamer's recent life events, has credibility.
For example, someone dreamed of a white snake bit him.Interpretation of dreams, let him recall a what had happened before.He said there is nothing special, just a classmate and noisy over a few words, and said, the student is wearing a white shirt.Between a dream and the incident related: white white shirt.This dream has credibility.
3.If the content of the dream and the dreamer major life events of the past, has credibility.
Some girls always do a nightmare, dreamed that the window opened, and a hairy monster stood at the window.According to the survey, she was the house rape, and then is the window into the criminal.Therefore, the dream have credibility.
Mastered these principles, we can judge a person dreams about roughly is credible.Of course, the actual form, could not every dream can meet all these principles.A dream can satisfy the principle of, the more it is more credible.
In real life, I found that although few speak false dreams, but when I speak true dream and a small amount of adaptation abridged is very common.
Is the most common and you said: "I have a friend who had a dream, dream of what...".Six or seven times out of ten this "friend" is in fact his own.In this case, I generally don't go to tube who he is, first, the interpretation of dreams.If you need to understand the background, or need to lenovo, simply ask about the dreamer."Before the dream he had gas?"Or "heTo get married?"And so on.Tell if the dreamer replies, then maybe this dream will be his, otherwise he won't know about the situation of the dreamer then.Say not to come out, if speak dreamer that it may be his friend's dream.
A side once I dream interpretation, interpretation of the question, "have you this friend work?Would you like to change your job?"The other answer one by one.The first answer it also said that "my friends really want to change my job."Then she said said, he said:
"I am the odds with the boss, I think this year must be transferred" and so on.
Unknown on the other side says, I generally is not disturbing, unless the other party to say "I".Show their smart, can see through others, it is no meaning.According to the dream, just to tell him about the note.
The dream also common to be abridged, abridged approach is to put some bad about the content of the omitted.This kind of situation often can be found from the dream before and after the article is not coherent.
But in general, as long as it doesn't affect the interpretation of dreams, don't mind.
Abridged sometimes unconsciously, when dreams about dreams, will say:
"Here is a I forgot."This forget a often contains no desire is to know the meaning.
Freud found an interesting phenomenon, that is the dreamer of word slipped out when I speak dream and dream about.For example, one dream, forget a among them, he said: "here seems to be something less.Through analysis, found that his dream and a piece of the past, when I was a child, he had mistakenly others room, are metA womanChange clothes.He saw the other private parts, surprised to find that "little something".Again, forget a dream, a woman said: "there are some unclear."By the analysis of her dream about the current situation with her, she was having an affair, now pregnant is not clear who is the father of the child.
Interpretation of the dream, forget a period of don't tube it, to release a part.When the other part of the interpretation of the good, forgotten part often Wells from the dreamer's mind.Perhaps this is because, before and after the dream the dream can make a person associate to another dream, interpretation of the meaning of this part can reveal that part of the dream.Adaptation of the dream is less, often just change my name in my dream a little.
After adaptation, the dream will sound strange, is easy to recognize.If you suspect each other, just ask: "this place is like some wrong, you recall again carefully."Can.
One thousand people say a false dream, you are not aware of, according to the real interpretation of the dream.While others are exposed, you not embarrassed.In ancient China has such a story:
Someone asked Zhou Xuan, "yesterday, I dreamed of live, what omen?Zhou Xuan said.
"You are going to get food."The dreamer had met banquets.Later the man asked Zhou Xuan: "yesterday I was dream of live, what omen?"Zhou Xuan said: "what do you want to fall down from the car broke the feet."Fork fulfilled.Later the man asked Zhou Xuan again: "I dream of live again, what happened?"Zhou Xuan said: "to your homeThe fire."Then it happens.The man to Zhou Xuan said: "I have a dream, these three times I was try you, how so spirit."Zhou Xuan said: "this is god let you said, and I dream no difference."That person ask: "dream of the omen three times, and why?"Zhou Xuan said: "live is a sacrifice to god, so dream it have diet book, after the offering or run over by a car, so that your car broken foot abortion, or the last to do wood burning, so that your houseThe fire。”
Zhou Xuan think dream is a divine revelation, we can't agree with this point.But there is one thing he said is right, that is false dreams can really dream interpretation.Why is that?Because the person is unconscious can affect the person's words and deeds.During the day, or in our words, there was also activity in the subconscious mind in your heart.When you casually say a word, the subconscious mind will instigate you name and your heart.Once has a person to chair a meeting, he himself is not interested in this a little, result in to say "we the meeting now," said a slip of the tongue into "now we delete".This is the subconscious work made him accidentally in the dark to speak out "delete".When a person make up false dreams, also can appear this kind of not speak truth.If you release the false dream interpretation is correct and reasonable, this explanation can also shed light on each other's inner activities.