Measure your innermost secrets (2) the chair
[1] "emotional" type
Smile on the surface you are good at using, pay attention to the external modifications, the overall image, hope and love to keep their own unique temperament, so has been deliberately let himself confined in a certain state: pay attention to their own literacy, cultural connotation, background of culture, in the hope that the blessing of his people.People often because of your talk, special insights and are attracted to you.But this relationship maintenance time is not as long as you expected, excessive hidden in your below, often let people around you feel a kind of not to pressure or partners.Warm invitation to others, in good faith commitment tend to be emotional impulse results, often a remorseful afterwards;And extremely hate someone is probably because a lovers.With your personal keen intuition, subjective judgment each other's good or bad;Environment and atmosphere can easily change your mental state.Therefore, associate with you for a long time may also need to learn to adapt to the mutation of emotions.
Character of the real you, afraid of being alone sometimes, sometimes cold so alone, don't want to intervene in other people's things, sometimes worry about losing the love of another person or colleagues respect and fear of being belittled, rejection, or strip wearing a mask.In fact, these are all of the self protection mechanism, in order to obtain higher self-esteem.
[2] "coordination"
This type of person is very easy to compromise.One could describe you is a man of intellectualization, inner quiet but full of wisdom.But excessive actual reason is self-control.Is probably the most strict education from childhood to suppress themselves into a stable, inside collect, and even nature also have some of the stubborn.For new things and new challenge in life you have been conservative attitude of wait and see, if you must choose between them, it is really to think constantly hovering between the gain and loss, so also with a lot of chances.Especially in heterosexual intercourse, often look at eyes, closed inner check each other, attention to detail is carefully observed, because of the fear of having their own not careful the situation of being deceived.
You never articulate your point of view, looking forward to the instructions of others.Adapt to behind the mask is a heart that want to please people around you.Under pressure in the childhood, formed the find it hard to trust your own ability, and on certain aspects of their feeling of inferiority.
[3] "leading" type
This type of people like the cause of the proactive big generalized instinct people don't want to be in command and constraints.In the workplace in everyday relationships willing to put himself in the neutral position.Pay attention to commitment, taking care of the weak, and sometimes also contained some of the male character, attaches great importance to the friendship and justice.Especially in the workplace, heterosexual colleagues are hard to view you as women with slender tender characteristics, more feeling is smart, atmosphere, independent of managers, professional business partner.
You sometimes "confused", in order to give others to change yourself a chance to make mistakes with severely accused face to face, is inferior to step back for lost of people to see the sincerity, to think and solve problems.
[4] "be" type
Like 3 have good interpersonal communication, but in its expressive, active mask is behind an unbearable loneliness of heart.The displeasure of heart need to pour out and out quickly, the secret of others is never willing to stay here, a person alone will get you nowhere.Nature of you looking for a kind of attention, especially from the attention of the opposite sex, care and respect quickly meet your share of the eating.To use their own temperament and become a focus in the surrounding the human wisdom, is your most instinct of psychological needs.Of course you didn't want to make any deviant behavior, just want to gain further from heterosexual love view to oneself.
It is from the heart of this kind of insecurity feeling, make you have been modified their dress, manners, just want to look just right.Hidden in the heart of anxiety and fear, because you look elegant and proud and hidden.
"I did it my way" [5]
Your inner world is very thin and sensitive, why let a person look so hard?Maybe this is you in some way to protect yourself.Looks strong, independent, you have a vulnerable side?The shy temperament only in front of the person can really understand and care for you will show it.Although most of the time, your heart tender and full of kindness, but on the surface often take the attitude of indifference to treat others.(Psychological tests /test/)
You trying to make herself into a "right" attitude, that is the integration of a strong and very good personality, to adapt to the complexity of life.Behind closed mask of ego, silence, is a person who hate bondage, be fond of acting alone.The heart have been unable to solve the hatred, disappointments make you lack of coexistence of coordination with others.As long as the think is the right facts, is absolutely beyond the dissent and invasion of others!