You should pay attention to in the interpersonal communication (2)
A, you must pay attention to is that you too along with the gender when dealing with people, even in the face of A stranger in A strange environment, you will soon well acquainted with each other, of course, this is also one of your strengths, but do you often speak in somewhat acquainted with each other then casually, thought close relations with each other, speak without the brain, off against each other words don't even know.
B, you must pay attention to is whether consciously or not, you all like to show off in front of people, you especially like to show off their own leadership and organization skills.You in front of friends often assumed a domineering, ask others what to do, while others may not have said what on the surface, but may have scold you thousands times inside, also alienate you silently.
C, you should pay attention to the point that in the process of getting along with people, don't rely too much on others, without your own opinion.Always obey the opinions of others, you have a problem is also very dependent on friends, like to friends for their opinion, friend's approach to its own way of doing things, although just started your this appearance can let the other side feel you is very important to him, but as time passes it will think you are a trouble man, everything is to rely on others.
D, you should pay attention to is not too gossip.Perhaps you have a VIP, so you for status will be to try to understand what the friend, and want to try to help.But you tend to forget that a friend in fact sometimes also need personal space, sometimes you have eroded the help of his privacy.
E, you should pay attention to is not always to their friends play the woman, hope to get the attention of friends.In getting along with people you always through all sorts of hints, express need others care to friends, and friends in order to maintain relationships with you can only meet your emotional needs.But you have to understand that each of us has our own fragile, sometimes friends need your comfort and care too, but you will only blindly to the other party for emotional satisfaction, how can a relationship for a long time?(The constellation chart /astro/yunshi/)
F, you should pay attention to is don't be too stubborn personality.You to the people to the things that he is very persistent, as long as that it is not easy to change, hard to avoid can give a person leave a stereotype.You this stubborn temper not only let a person feel difficult to deal with, also can let a person feel you're not gentle enough bright and broad minded, treat people attitude, is a difficult person.