1, "just as you said," I feel the same way, "agreed should be combined with each other.In accordance with the other person's freedom depends on the occasion of things, and this man attaches great importance to interpersonal relationships, adopt homology with him flatter is understandable.Instead of echo, afterward is expressed according to the meaning of each other, after knowing each other's attitude, than the other party say, earlier his profound sympathy for, more can increase effect.

2, "that's great, wield too good!"If golf is such praise, also is not high for the one who probably rarely!But when a man doesn't know to play golf is such a boast, but feels wrong.Can know a man who used to flatter, is confident that my ability and is only this kind of evaluation caliber.With different ground away from the topic, a grain or expose himself to be a foolish and ignorant, a grain of salt is better than say too much but speak little more appropriate.Flattery should be listened to others also don't hurt his image of a kind of psychological seasoning.(Psychological tests /test/)

3, I'm familiar with "this", "this is my best" and so on with their performance and experience, to make each other's heart, instead of using "I what all not belittle oneself to" achievements of each other's situation.Whether propaganda or belittle yourself, if you do too much will be boring, so flatter method, best to consider their relations with each other will be more appropriate.