Emotional intelligence which is more important and son ping feng shui

Host: marriage is happy and your childhood upbringing and personality develop very relationship, and even decisive.Childhood is each person is different, the son of flat eight each person is different also, of course, I understand a person's childhood I may know what is his character, but I don't know about his childhood know he's a child of the group of eight, with what I know him and I don't fit?

Dong Yi Lin: why zygote group of eight, we know that it is the Chinese traditional culture, handed down from ancient China.The ancients of men and women both parties can only meet once, through the matchmaker, this kind of situation is only one choice, both sides took the child group of eight, looking for a very famous local fortune-teller zygote flat batch of eight, because he had very little choice.We now society, 06, all aspects of the men and women are free love, living together and even how long consideration of child flat horoscope, optional a little too high.My point of view, the son of group of eight we definitely want to see, but can't superstition in it, that is to say you have a boyfriend now, can only say that you have, or you have to go to the later, congenital you find, find again after the day after tomorrow to cooperate, you two sons group of eight words good or bad in the child group of eight will display, similar to some fortune teller will also tell you, this two child flat batch horoscope of what would happen if together for a long time problem, he will speak to you very understand.Do you have what thing, now's a little more, always separated, shu teacher said family is affected, the so-called family parents affected, with usThe I chingPoint of view or some of his innate factors, is clear, or book of changes, that is to say you son to go to the group of eight, it can play the role.

From a young child, how can tell his parents' marriage, can be reflected, can reflect how about him naturally.Shu teacher speak of is material, that is, you can now see to understand.Really flat batch horoscope predict it is invisible, as if we are predicting that the weather forecast is now forecast, anything can be predicted in advance, forecasting, subtracting is simple, the last of the equal sign is the mean.

Host: two kinds of forecast are not quite same, shu the teacher mentioned by childhood beacause of a happy marriage is the more the day after tomorrow, and you said a child of the group of eight birth more.

Dong Yi Lin: learn to know, as long as there is the child even after the group of eight, congenital and acquired can be reflected.

Host: how to embody?

Dong Yi Lin: in the group of eight ping information, you'll have to read the book of changes.

Host: have to learn some, just understand what is.

You just said to meet the modern society, love only after watching or not.But now the reality, there are many old man, very believe this, such as parents let their children before the meeting or is introduced before,A blind dateBefore they go to the us.

Some favorable Dong Yi Lin: this way, the old man in the way more traditional, more ancient, so two people are sad in the future.Parents together for several years, home to pick up your child flat batch horoscope to see, fortune-teller tell you two of them, cannot be together, this time must called yuanyang, don't want to break up, the damage is too big with two.At first to the operator group of eight words like, can make friends first, took the child flat batch of eight show master is better, so no need to stick dozen mandarin duck.

Host: at first what we said is flat batch of eight children, my teacher said simple dong, shu teacher also said the decision before the age of eight family marriage important factors.Dong teacher said that can best meet before one, look line not line, no don't, you agree with this opinion?

Shu sing: I don't agree with, psychology, prefer to say a few words, "growth" and "metamorphosis", life suffering will be some, is not in marriage, in the work, there must be, nine times out of ten people this life will not happy, why not happy, why not happy.A similar incident happened, in the face of it doesn't matter, A B in the face of this thing is very sad, C face this things roar with laughter.Why is that?Attitude problem.In fact I think all the ups and downs in life, in fact provides you with a room to grow, marriage also is such, you say people can't say what you are born, you to die or what?We speak now special emotional intelligence, a personal emotional need to improve, some born enough.If your life depends on all of the training, experience, metamorphosis, inner attitudes are positive, more wisdom, your emotional intelligence into 180 finally, you face the things easy, so I like this attitude, I do psychological counseling is also this method.Don't be afraid of all the difficulties, to accept it.

Host: including the group of eight ping out do not be afraid.

Shu sing: yes, it is very important to accept, all fear comes in your life, is particularly important in the psychological treatment, all resist will become the biggest pain.Such as a personal disability, you resist the disabled your pain is better than one hundred times larger at the moment, accept the disabilities become very cheerful.Including cancer people, too, some people can live for a long time, but some people will soon have no, this has something to do with psychology.One marriage or love experience is to give a person to provide room to grow, let you see where obstacles, problems where you can change yourself.Themselves as the origin, the world changed when change their, psychological projection, what do you see in my heart, when your in the mind without this you can't see.Su dongpo and xiao-mei su, the story of the Buddha and shit, he saw a dirty thing in your heart something dirty, dirty into clean is a metamorphosis.

Host: adjustment is very important.

Net friend: I think the son ping people some of the group of eight may be congenital information, but the day after the formation of character and their own efforts is also very important, otherwise as long as the child draws the group of eight good can once and for all?

Host: let's take a group of eight is good separated said, close child flat group of eight will have a happy marriage?

Dong Yi Lin: this is not absolute, I have a lot of example, for example, we said is very simple, the last one of my friends to see a doctor at a hospital in Beijing, the husband and wife two people when I chat with him I have found that they are now close to fifty years old or so,To get marriedBoth for about 30 years, it has never had a quarrel, this kind of feeling is very good, three children, in the words of her husband very happy, there is nothing more than his happiness again, they also believe that at that time, also get it, someone said that his marriage is very good, but said a word, they are very afraid of.Although you feeling good, but not a lasting relationship, it's very simple sentence they are in my heart, in the end, 5 years when you talk to him I found this problem, because the hostess was suffering from a kind of cancer, the doctor appraisal can live more than 20 days, this case won't give up her husband can live more day by day, very touching.Their son flat batch horoscope I take out to see, I have learned that when a child Mr Group of eight to when he said this sentence really can see some information, since in this information you children of the group of eight, couples cooperated very well, but you would be hard to end, in this case we can't say the husband will marry a man, or even have been kept waiting for her, it is hard to say.If he again to look for a lover, sure, marriage is not an end, that's halfway husband and wife.

Host: this is dong teacher says an instance, because the son of eight close feeling is very good, don't go to the old.

Dong Yi Lin: two men fighting this way is not feeling bad, possible lifetime came, surrounded by a lot of the old man is such, three quarrel, two days is close or not, must be closed, but there is not one side, at the end of the day must be a lasting relationship.Son of flat eight words as long as no harm a person especially big information, any group of eight words or close, it is necessary to look at.