Eight words can save the marriage with a baby?

Some people marriage flashing red light, or have an uneasy relationship, but don't want to give up, then look for ways to save.One way, just want to have a baby, to save the marriage, and lovers for each other emotional indifference or change, also want to have a baby for each other, to save his heart, so whether this idea is really effective?

The child is the bridge and the link between husband and wife or lovers, is an important medium of communication feelings, there is no doubt about it, but the problem is not the same, according to the children in the role of husband and wife or lover of eight.

In a birth horoscope, the wounded officer and upon shef, to represent the children, the so-called upon shef and wounded officer, is based on the eight day do to distinguish, the son of a dry 5 lines, collectively known as the food, the Japanese do the same five elements of Yin and Yang, called upon shef, with dry otherness of Yin and Yang five elements, known as the wounded officer.

Food is to let the cat out of the consumption, dry, it is for dry is fierce, it should according to the eight words with cream.The so-called, is needed, the so-called cream, is taboo.In general, if the eight days of dry is flourishing, or from strong from the weak, need food to drain consumption, then this injury for it;If a horoscope is weak, don't need to eat to drain consumption, then this injury is fierce.

So from that perspective, if on behalf of the children's food, in eight words to need five elements, that have a baby, is beneficial to improve relationship, on the contrary, if on behalf of the children's food, in the horoscope of taboo, the five elements that give birth to a child, is a negative relationship.

But the real problem is not so simple, if two people have to eat with, having a baby will improve the husband and wife, is favorable to adjust the relationship, but if one of them to food is used, is good for themselves;Another person has to eat to avoid injury, to oneself is bad, the problem is more complicated.

Encounter this kind of situation, that is about to combine both of us marriage edge state, if two of eight marriage would not have ji, a sign of divorce is quite obvious, one side to eat to avoid injury, theTo have childrenDidn't help either.

Even though both of eight to food for use, children may not be able to save the marriage.This is because, first, two people marriage was inauspicious, sooner or later has the like of divorce, even if a few child, also save the marriage crisis.

Such as Cecilia cheung and Nicholas tse marriage, that is, belong to is to eat to use, but two people marriage is not auspicious, children are difficult to save the marriage instances:

Zhang feng shui: GengShen, xin (the third), Ding You, a (), in the soil for the wounded officer, in eight words to need five lines, so the children is good the marriage relationship, also favor of his natural talent.

Xie feng shui: GengShen (shen), JiaQu, wu-cheng, armor.Feed on fire, in eight also to need five lines, so it is good to have children of marriage relationship, but not now, only yiding sharing officer, hidden in the of the said the wounded officer's role is not big, but luckily not, too much hurt officer star, affects the business.

Though, two people to eat for use, children benefit their marriage, but two of eight mating is not auspicious, column equals bad marriage, love lost month column, the wedding palace with corning, when punishment difficult long column, so although married with two children, but for both of marriage, although a few years can prolong the wedding, is a drop in the bucket, hard to save the marriage failed in the end.

Therefore, only a couple of eight marriage no big problem, and both sides to eat, for couples with children can have the effect of save the marriage, otherwise not only don't save, but also may backfire, form new encumbrance, had to humiliation, the trauma of feelings.

And having children is a very important thing, make sure both marriage auspicious, marriage quality wins, harmonious relationship, willing to be together life, and then make a decision of fertility, this is the responsible thing, encumbrance, otherwise not only can increase the marriage and divorce, also can harm the heart and growth of the children, so can't jump.

Marriage is a kind of predestination, pay attention to and meet on every occasion, must insist, don't count on the tree, and trees in it, does not belong to your true fate, missed or lost, never is not a good thing;A true love, as long as the stick to hit the true fate, sooner or later come to your side.

Marriage is a kind of responsibility, also is a kind of responsibility, not with a temporary emotional, leaving more regret;Can't fantasy give birth to a child hooked on to each other, trying to save the dying marriage or relationship, otherwise can only be shooting yourself in the foot, take the consequences.