There are many influence factors in marriage, such as ethics, morality, psychology, culture, physiology, ideas, feelings, customs and so on, the single from the perspective of sociology to research to find out the root cause of bad marriages, how can improve or avoid the bad in the marriage?We believe that if that neo-confucianism of eight pairs of angles to analyze and solve the problem of marriage, is not difficult to find the answer.

For thousands of years of fuxi painted hexagrams, ancient Chinese thinkers to foretell the future "this thesis has carried on the unremitting exploration and the patch, on how to make a happy marriage this proposition, wise sages had invented the eight words or marriage, benefit posterity, and ratified.

Eight is the time according to the people born from the calendar found Chinese era eight words.The ancient scholars believe that the five elements of Yin and Yang between heaven and earth are the five elements;So the Chinese era sets of five lines.Due to the eight words recorded the moment when the person is born of the condition of gas, the five lines of qi is a kind of invisible aura, the fate of past life is from the five elements of "rush punishment born grams" wash out.So, it is theoretical foundation, did not superstitious.

Why can figure of eight of eight pairing marriage?Because husband and wife live together for a long time, the aura that will happen, the role of the results or benefits, or is good for me, or both, or both damage and so on, so their fate trajectory is changed or lucky or disaster.In brothers or sisters of fate is particularly obvious, after marriage the eight brothers or sisters are generally the same, when two people of the same figure of eight before the unmarried, similar to the same places a lot of good or ill luck, luck is like years should be auspicious, the same should be fierce, the same year KaoXue, get rich poorer gram father in that year, and so on.Once theTo get marriedLater, each other good luck will have obvious differences, such as children year possible differences, when divorce is not necessarily the same year, and so on.This is because the eight words although the same two people, but the spouse's transition is not exactly the same, the aura is, of course, also is different, when the brothers or sisters interact with their spouse's auras, luck will appear.

Because each person's aura of strength and the balance degree is not the same, and every one of eight words can show different ingredients and defect of the aura, using each xi cream from five line to complement each other, marriage can make people achieve smooth.So by eight to adjust people's marriage is very scientific, eight words with marriage have been around for thousands of years of important reasons.

Once married men and women, the other becomes their closest person, so each other are the eight combinations on the impact of their must be the biggest of all.The other side of the life of eight innings, therefore, not only affects the oneself, must also influences the new family, and even influence the parents' family, men and women cannot not taken seriously.Our past st first, in this marriage, eight pairs, gave us a lot of valuable experience, as we have today, more should take its essence, be used, on reasonable to avoid the fate of bad information, effective use of favorable factors in the fate of.