Eight words refers to the men and women both parties of all sorts of marriage or marriage condition with particular custom measured, in contrast, together they will become, not fell through, so it is the most decisive key point in the process of marriage.The so-called well and badly, and is based on the good or ill luck of marriage custom standard completely, ji is close, not is not.

Therefore, men and women of marriage had been pregnant with intent to pick an auspicious day, try from the following several aspects.

1, age, pick an auspicious day

In many parts of the folk taboo married at the age of eighteen, thought unlucky.Reason is that it is said that the marriage would be "difficult", probably with eighteen layers of hell ", "lines of lenovo.

Real age and marriage must compare the age of the men and women both parties, such as men and women of the age difference, many areas avoid is difference of three, six, nine years old, expecting to make punishment, rush, g, harm, harmful to one's marriage.Central plains with a proverb "female one, Huang Jinfei;Female two, gold long ", meaning a year older female than male,To get marriedAfter financial ruin;But it will make a fortune is natural for two years.Also avoid is born the same day the same men and women, common saying cloud: "age different month, in the same month the womb."Mean people born in the same year in the same month after marriage will affect children's reproduction.

Some areas have must follow the principle of long before they are young, brother unmarried, brother can't marry first, younger sister also cannot marry first.

There is no scientific basis for age most pick an auspicious day, de-fine in theory, in reality can find a lot of counter example to prove this was nonsense to pick an auspicious day.

3, a birth horoscope pick an auspicious day

Eight words: marriage is based on the date of birth are the horoscope, according to the five lines of raw's reasonable to conclude that the good or ill luck of marriage.

So, what is a figure of eight?How to calculate horoscope?Horoscope is one year, month, day of birth, when Chinese era, year, month, day, when added up to a total of the item, numerology, divisor flat called the "four pillars", each column an air-dried a number, a total of eight characters, therefore calls "horoscope".Calculation of eight of the marriage, only push out after eight, can be born again according to the five lines between eight grams to deduce the relationship between men and women both parties of the horoscope is consistent.

2, pick an auspicious day zodiac five lines

After the passage of zodiac year, don't know since when, folk, the communication between the character within a genus.Xiao, also.Who was born in which year was, what animal sign is the animal, who possesses the nature of the animal, at least in some partyfacesBe like.Therefore, marriage, of course, want to consider whether the animal sign of suitable men and women.Whether the Chinese zodiac phase grams.

Through historical evolution, folk custom in the Chinese zodiac avoid mating appropriate there have also been some variation, is not completely strictly with the life of the five lines of restraint mineralization, accordingly, some even today.Dry feng shui feng shui master said LiuEnZe

In addition, large areas in the mainland, is still in some Chinese zodiac circulated folk marriage of proverbs and songs.

Proverbs such as tiger resulted, there will be a wound.Tiger resulted, will be short-lived.Two sheep, not live long, two different tiger mountain.Pig monkey not to an end.Afraid of charming young man.The dog is not a chicken.The chicken dog suitable broken marriage.Blue dragon, white tiger tiger rat not side.

Ballads have afraid of Taurus, charming rat sheep is not the end.Snake see tigers, such as knife file, pig see monkeys curtailment of tears.Since ancient times, a white horse not worthy to cattle, sheep rat once suitably.Golden with dogs meet, tsing lung see rabbit tears exchange.Pig monkey mail surface such as cutting, tiger snake match is not the end.Match tiger snake, male, female, pigs with monkey, is not the end.The rabbit see snakes, such as cutting.White horse was afraid of cattle, pigs afraid of ape.Snake is afraid of tigers, such as knife, sheep rat once meet Hugh, black dog could not enter the sheepfold, heptyl chicken see tears exchange.Chicken son "avoid snakes cattle, the third unitary ugly avoid dog tiger horse.Yin afternoon, avoid is pig rabbit sheep of the hai bases not avoid dragon rat monkey.

If we passed the proverb, ballads and Taiwan in the mainlandcalendarIn the Chinese zodiac wedding table as a comparison, you will find both similarities, there are different and even contradictory, it illustrates the zodiac or marriage itself.A pair of men and women and marriage in the mainland, in Taiwan when they put wedding lucky, visible signs in marriage is completely frivolous and homes.Variability, the difference is, in fact, the basic characteristics of the folk customs, is the so-called "the different wind in different customs", as long as you can, "when in Rome, do as the Romans do" everything is all right.This is visible, for folk customs not too serious, especially in the modern society, again to the customs of ancient cult is naive.