How to see whether men and womenTo get married？

Dr Zheng Weijian/article

Emotional development to a certain extent, men and women consider marriage problems.So, men and women will get married to see what?A method of ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign, and is married.

And marriage is a tradition of the Chinese nation, is usually hold wedding division there on both sides of eight to marriage.If the eight words and successful marriage;If a horoscope, may have a problem, at least need to resolve.So close marriage division would normally give a horoscope with reason and with severity.As both sides stick to married, married architect will also give some solution and avoid disaster.No matter and or not, marriage will choose a good day, in order to achieve the purpose of and avoid.

So why are men and women can by marriage to see whether each other right?In fact, Dr Zheng has said in the previous post, marriage has a variety of methods, one of the main of marriage.

Horoscope is man's birth time, namely, year, month, day, hour, it recorded the moment when the person is born five lines of qi state.The element of air is an invisible aura.Everything in the world are all in the aura, including plants, animals, and even an object.For the people, each person's aura of gas strength and the degree of equilibrium is not the same, and two people live together for a long time, the two sides aura to interact, the role of results: or beneficial or detrimental, etc., and the fate of each track is changed or lucky or disaster.

That we can be seen from the brothers or sisters, when two people of the same figure of eight before the unmarried, good or ill luck to similar to the same places a lot of luck, like the years should be auspicious, the same should be fierce, the same year KaoXue, get rich poorer gram father in that year, and so on.Once married, the difference between each other good luck will be relatively clear, such as children year possible differences, when divorce is not necessarily the same year, and so on.This is because the eight words although the same two people, but the spouse's transition is not exactly the same, aura is also different, interaction, that luck differ.So by eight to adjust people's marriage is feasible.

But we also want to comprehensive analysis and look at the wedding, everything is not absolute, even in marriage results, as long as two people feeling is very good, still can resolve to achieve profits to ward off bad luck, harmony.On the other hand;Results even in marriage is very good, but do not pay attention to communicate with each other, do not pay attention to the house's feng shui, the friends of don't pay attention to the good or bad, so, may also fall, marriage break-up.Dr Zheng thinks, it is very important to realize it.

From the perspective of the statistics of Dr Zheng, currently eight marriage situation generally has four kinds:

1, the groom's parents go to the son and the object of marriage.

2, her parents to daughter and the object of marriage.

3, after marriage, the two sides of one or both parents don't agree with their own children to marry.

4, men and women both parties of one or both of their marriage, and the result is not good, marriage lead to hesitate or break up.

There is a famous saying: about marriage, don't say, said today (Monday) will be wrong.Because marriage is a very complex thing, ever changing, changing.Dr Zheng thinks, marriage can make a better understanding of each other, both sides is "the enemy and know yourself, fight".However, no matter in the wedding of the outcome, are the feelings of men and women both parties of marriage is an important reference factors, pay attention to, is not sufficient and necessary factors.Because, anything can be through the appropriate way to solve.

Therefore, Dr Zheng suggested that every one has the marriage of men and women for economic co-operation and development, or is about to close friends, marriage you must involution marriage have the right attitude, and marriage just means, not the goal, the purpose is to make men and women love each other better able to find the advantages and disadvantages with each other, so as to complement each other, to live together better.Marriage, of course, for us, found that the two sides in such aspects as personality, strong, very serious, dissolve the up is very complicated, and feelings to each other is not so deep, so, Dr Zheng advice might as well to calm for a period of time to break up or be friends with each other is not late.

Dr Zheng need to remind friends, now a lot of so-called numerology so-called experts or society fortune teller in marriage is simply according to the Chinese zodiac grams, or avoid simple judgment of eight xi, often leads to the wrong marriage, like quack misjudgment, lead to unnecessary tension, and even feelings of both men and women marriage break-up.This is a "quack" is immoral behavior, is also need our men and women both parties to identify itself, don't be "grasping" oh.

Your letter of the day before yesterday, a friend, for a sign, it read:

"Phoenix pavilion Long Louren, a bright moon and cool breeze, yuanyang scattered thing go, spring is that all flowers red again."

She worried that if they will be facing divorce, Dr Zheng solution, please.But the meaning of this sign is not a divorce, but two people are truly in love can't together, so we have to bite the bullet, respectively, meet again also can't again.We usually say is "ships" meaning.

However, men's and women's emotion pray, also is only a reference, both neither can all listen to not to hear.Dr Zheng thinks, the key is how their confidence in the emotion and marriage, confident, will have to dissolve the adverse factors, no confidence, a good marriage in the end will be "dark clouds".

Special remind:

1, eight marriages do not just look at the men and women's transition zone in based on the five elements, more should look at both sides of the use, avoid is god, god and antimicrobial relationship, so you can't really clear the affection between men and women and marriage for a long time.

The affection between men and women in fact is a kind of fate, and marriage is between you and the fate of how many, can stand the test of the test of time, frustration, money test, test, the test of the scions of disease, the test of temptation, and so on, if you can withstand, stand still, so, this paragraph of love between men and women can have a lasting relationship, happiness life, otherwise can only be halfway husband and wife, or men and women both parties are subject to great mental and physical torture.

2, often have this kind of circumstance: numerology mating suitable men and women, in real life may not be happy not harmonious;The marriage is not suitable for men and women in the life is more harmonious happy?Why will appear this kind of circumstance?

Appear this kind of situation, Zheng Weijian believes that a truth: only on numerology is suitable for the men and women, as husband and wife to be happy, also must have a suitable environment to correspond.In other words, if you live in a house, or your work office surroundings of feng shui is bad, will cause a big obstacle to a marriage, you cause your arguments and, a lot of trouble.

On the other hand, although some men's and women's husband and wife, numerology and marriage may is ordinary, but, they live in the house and office around the situation is very good, so it is good for their disadvantages, so that their strengths to play out, to hide his own shortcomings, so, happy couples are developed.

Need friends note that any emotion marriage both by internal director factors, are also affected by the external objective factors, need the unity of the subjective and objective.Some may occasionally derailed, or occasionally to shouldn't place, thus resulting in a decline in the aura of the you and your spouse, eventually make the both sides of husband and wife relationship and marriage are greatly affected.These, Dr Zheng to remind my friends, have to cause us any one attaches great importance to the men and women friends.