TaurusThe people have to be sad and happy double character.When accumulated to the apex of the depression, will be like a volcano burst open.They are inThe zodiacWork is the most diligent;Patience, endurance and toughness is its characteristics.They believe that the joy of love, beauty and rich, is the proof of existence of life, as well as the faith of his truth, for this purpose;They will choose the safest, does route (usually long brewing and thoughtful conclusion), once determined, no one can change it.

Taurus has to do with our ability to perceive things.It represents the's ability to enjoy everything we have, and for we believe that the valuable thing in the world.We think what is valuable, we want to have it.This is the essence of "possession".The principle first began in possess of your body.Taurus traits in figure strongly if you were born, you naturally maintain oneself body, when you are tired you will be immediately to rest, hungry eat immediately.Unless you are sure to do so, otherwise you won't waste or consume your energy.However, once you have decided to go all out, you will be sustained effort - when you perceive their own efforts will have return, endurance and stamina naturally.You can still keep calm in crisis, unless absolutely necessary, otherwise don't hurry.You generally have a leisurely pace, so the person appears to be stable and reliable.You are very appreciate the benefits of material comfort and sensual pleasure;At the same time, unless you can prove to you that the value of things changed, otherwise your view on the value of the objects are difficult to shake.

For Taurus, based on the evaluation of fear will weaken their ability of pleasure, block for the creation of affluent life, also can cause extreme inert, eventually lead to they can't enjoy the pleasure of life.No more easily than the Taurus constellation stuck in its fixed!If in their life experience, life does not return what they, want to persuade them to trust this kind of reward, really is too difficult.Negative information can strengthen "based on the evaluation of fear" from any Angle, to realize this is very important.For Taurus, this kind of judgment is often an additional "selfish", or "greed" label, if who grew up in a family resource is scarce, the tags may lead to guilt.Or "punish" can also lead to this mindset: for example, a TaurusThe child, every time he refused to share toys with brothers and sisters, will be punished forbid him to play the toy, and reviled as "selfish bad boy," just because he want to protect or to hold onto the things we own.To the child's psychological harm as a result, more terrible when the ownership of the children of her body is adult infringement damage, whether violent or sexual abuse, would seriously damage the ability to enjoy pleasure after he (she) in adult.

For an example of growth was injected in the negative information, a twice with Taurus traits (refers to: the sun, the moon, there are two locations in a rise in Taurus) customers remember when I was young my mother often scolded her "selfish and greedy pig!Grateful for what all can't, what also do not deserve you!"When we are together to explore what makes her credit card debt of $90000, is on the verge of bankruptcy, the childhood memories emerged.Such a big line represents the psychological imbalance, consumer debt is she "can't afford to buy, or buy and seems to enjoy the long" (quote from customer archives record).

For Taurus critical common tag was "lazy, stubborn, no use!"Such as version.As noted above, leisurely style of Taurus can even make difficult task look easy, but it comes to education of their children, such children may leave their parents lose patience, addicted to these parents send the child to look the appearance of high enthusiasm, diligent efforts, if the child can't do that, just as the "slow" or "lack of initiative" conclusion "lazy" is popular.Dressed in the morningGo to schoolNo need to race against time to rush to the finish line, parents urged the faster, the Taurus children are more tend to procrastinate, refused to wear clothes material is not soft and comfortable, as described in the "stubborn" label."No use (good for nothing)" is a very sinister label, is the direct attack of self-worth, lack of efforts laid the groundwork in the future for the children because the label "useless (nothing)" once in a person's mind, he will automatically suggest themselves, no matter how effort, finally can't get anything.

"Possessive" is another typical Taurus.I will begin to address the imbalances of behaviour.A little bit of "desire" is a healthy, normal Taurus traits;But Taurus and other fixed signs (another lion, Scorpio, water bottles), are likely to become "fixation".Taurus "fixation" on the "title" : "she is mine!"Or, "he belongs to me!!!!!!!"This declaration of ownership may be extreme.One of my clients is Taurus men, after divorce with his wife, continued to sleep with her for years - a Taurus let go slowly.

Extreme possessiveness, however, is often a "judge" (judgments) in early life.Taurus customers had to recall a month when I was a child when his mother in the bed in the evening stay too long, my father will be provoked.He describes the when his father caught him, he held on toThe quiltScream, and the mother to her father, let him put his son down, then he was his father pulled, jointly with the quilt, was dragged back to his room."I could hear dad roared in the ear, 'this is your room!, 'he said mercilessly threw me down on the bed, and flung the door slam."What's wrong with the child must be!"He listen to father said so many times.Parents divorce later, when he was nine years old.The customer said he remember that parents' marriage was a result of their broken.Customers to come to my here consulting, his struggle for two years of a relationship is on the edge of breakdown."The more I try not to possessiveness, acquisitiveness becomes stronger!"During a consultation, he loudly shout out this sentence.Gradually, he began to understand, to strengthen the guilt of the parents divorce him for own negative evaluation, think your possessiveness can lead to bad results, this judgment, in turn, and continuously to give the relationship between he and his girlfriend have a negative impact.When he learned to do not take "evaluation" to "recognize" their sense of possessiveness, his anxiety less.Better yet, a year later, he met in get along with "no one can let me relax like her".Now, their marriage has lasted for 18 years and have a son and a daughter.(The constellations /astro/zhishi/)

If you are born in Taurus traits is very strong, and if the above mentioned negative labels have to let you feel the same way, you will realize that these ingrained assumptions about "who am I" can be changed.Change isn't easy, but definitely worth your effort!You get in return would be a more fun, more abundant life, at the same time, you can easily mentality gratitude and appreciation for all the good things you present.After all, you were born was stronger than other signs have the ability to enjoy a comfortable, especially sensory experience such as touch, taste, smell.