Reason, modest, studious, can distinguish between right and wrong, the pursuit of perfection, hard work, intelligence, and competent, like clean and tidy, doing things carefully, clear mind and analysis ability is strong, strong concept of time, and so on, these arevirgoThe characteristics of.

Virgo and other constellations have their own personal growth.Virgo is the growth of the most common subject through work, career, find self positioning their own professional field."I am a software engineer," said a virgo, rather than "I work in the software design."Means "I am a professional" rather than "I have this ability."On the surface, respectively is small, here until unemployment even worse things happened - their skills out of date.

Many years ago, I have a customer in department of IBM mainframe computers.To deal with the huge monster computers, he is an expert, compared with today's personal computers and mobile phones, it's like a dinosaur.From IBM company when he left, he experienced a major "identity crisis".He doesn't know how to define his next.He didn't even know how to face his wife, children, friends, neighborhood.He felt as if Columbus came to the strange land.For him, losing identity positioning is a very serious matter.His wife later became my customers.She asked her husband to consulting time and I agreed.

When he came to me consultation, is beginning to a new study plan, this is part of his dismissal compensation.He looked a little worried, a little nervous.His eyes searching for the focus.I pushed his chart to the front of him."Look at this," I said to him, "what do you see?This is when you were born the position of the sun falls, virgo, here we call it the eighth house."He nodded dazed."At the age of sixteen you what happened?"I asked him.He sighed deeply.I caught his attention."At that time, my father lost his job..."After the silence, and then he said," half a year later, his father died of artery...My college tuition fees are paid on father's insurance."This dialogue let him sort out the mess.He remembered his father's words, "unemployed man is the most worthless."I wrote on his astrological file this sentence.

In the consultation during the second half, he began to realize the meaning of their existence "far more than just a job".We are born with all has its own intrinsic value, this is not only measured in work.Him in the face of the deeply ingrained belief that their inner man didn't work, also not as good as dead, or is that men don't work is not far from the death, like his father.He began to understand, for the importance of family is more than just a "person" of the bacon, no matter how your family will love him, admire him.He is a perfectionist.His wife said that he was driving his wife and children was mad, he will do the right things with a variety of ways to help your family and pointed out their mistakes, but his wife, able to laugh at the stringent requirements for him.She is very happy to see her husband - he to study, then once again return to the computer industry.He spent the identity crisis, and thoroughly remould oneself, reborn.

In my experience, I have seen this one theme in many different forms.Especially, this kind of identity crisis in teenage virgo man, they can remember from the start, just try to develop their own special skills, like sports, football, gymnastics, baseball, must practice the injury had to stop.In life, we all regard it as a baseball player, can be a good pitcher big school team next, or even become a professional athlete.These professional skills on behalf of who they are, or say, they think it is.For them, it is not easy to find a new stage in life, it is important to let them know that they are loved and appreciated, simply because their original appearance, not because of what they have professional skills.

Indeed, virgo people wish they are indispensable, they want to play a useful role in the plan.So, Mr Virgos often becomes the key, and it is all by themselves.No one than virgo tougher, because these critical voice in their mind there is little.The sun in virgo people tend to have a strict father, people who have the moon in virgo have a strict mother.In general, these parents repeated message is, "you are flawed, and strive to perfect is very far away."For many people in virgo, no matter how hard they tried to please his parents, are still not up to standard.For virgo people particularly heavy stress and worry, they will strictly examine everything, will be a little mistakes and flaws - not even hard not to think about.(The zodiac /astro/)

I heard a very suitable for virgo's motto: "there is no perfect but present perfect imperfect."If you are a virgo man and if you feel worry destroyed your happy life, please try to measure your belief system set up in our lives.Where these mental pattern come from?Use your analytical, find these obstacles you the root of the old patterns of self-realization.In the zodiac, virgo people not only can use logical analysis ability to find the cause of the problem, more can use this ability to write a new life for yourself.But remember, don't criticize, harsh criticism to people.Need to do is to admit that the old model, accept it.Change will come.You adapt to this change, through grinding new skills, for the world to provide more functional.