ScorpioPersonality aloof, mysterious and sexy.He likes to do it yourself to do;Like to improve their working and living environment;And don't like doing nothing and unexamined life, it will make him lose vitality and vigor.Some like to abandon, living in the shadows.He never admit defeat, if met with setbacks, he will produce a strong psychological allergy.He likes drama, will be in the path of his directors from time to time.He will never forget what they hurt and the lessons of failure.

Influenced by the intense Scorpio elements, can be more consciously involved in the own metamorphosis growth, bias or stems from a fear of belief, which prevent you have more satisfaction to life.Have a look, have the following sentences in conformity with you.

"I is too fierce, people always ask me why so!"

"I'm not myself, the old thinking is what thing."

"I always feel jealousy and suspicion to others."

"I hate myself for always want to control other people."

"If people know my heart for their circle, will leave me."

"I don't need anyone, ok?Who are not honest!"

"Refuse my attitude, you either do with me, or is my enemy!"

Note that the content of these sentences are "extreme" or "absolute", a kind of very Scorpio type.In fact, these Scorpio people on their own views in the root is a negative bias, violated its own strong emotional nature.Become a more passionate, emotional stronger what's the problem?Of course no problem.In addition to the cost, more strong "emotional" means greater joy joy, also means that more intense pain.Great poet khalil gibran (north point fall in Scorpio) writes, "bone-deep pain, and eternal joy."

Let's see the first sentence, "I is too intense;People always ask me why!"This sentence written all hidden in the fear of abandonment.In other words, expression is, "I can't accept my intense emotions;No one stand!"Irony is that as long as they can't accept their own strong emotions, others can't accept!Once the self-acceptance, others also opened arms.They will smile and say, "you are really fierce," and will no longer frown glower - it's your internal projection of judgment.Here is the key to realize the strong emotional nature of our hearts, and admit it - finally accepted it.

The second sentence, "I'm not myself, the old thinking is what thing."This is another extreme.Ask yourself, as if you are my client, I will ask you, "are you really all the time are nervous?"More realistic answer should be, "well, isn't all the time, but is often!""Upset" is often because we cling to his control of things.Many of my clients are Scorpio said. "I try to imagine the worst situation happened?I was able to head off?"The primary concern "survival" is a common sign Scorpio.I have a friend, the moon in Scorpio on 8th house, he once said to me, when he takeTake a plane, will pay attention to the passengers on the same, "I think that they would not have died in is together with me?"Apprehend the vagaries of life and death is the fate of Scorpio.Accept it, just don't have to fell into the "unhealthy" unease.

Many years ago, a Scorpio boy's parents told me about their concern about his son.And they said, "we go camping, he'll get bitten by snake venom first aid kit."She added, "he spent hours reading may occur near the snake material, he can recognize three types of poisonous snakes."I explained to them, this is the standard of Scorpio.I Daniel boone, for example, the American early pioneer loggers, the most outstanding is also a Scorpio.Many Chinese may never heard this name, he is a real Scorpio, he was the family of native Indian flute, captured, but he survived, and successfully escape, warning boomers soon there will be a surprise.Then I told the mother further detailed analysis the ScorpioThe little boyThe astrolabe, parents will grow relieved.The children are very love science and want to be a medical workers, in the end he became a oncology doctor.

Listed above sentence, "always jealousy and suspicion" or "hate oneself is controlling" are common Scorpio evaluation.Envy is insufficient for their strong emotional expression, jealousy is someone else in your imagination you have, and you don't have things.Scorpio has a very strong passion and desire, so the instinctive fear will have enough, is not good enough, the extended warm desire.Insufficient sex appeal, "I'm not enough good, rich, not strong enough, I will lose you!"But, is it true?Let your fear to tell you, remind you, your fear because of desire is too strong!If let go of desire, fear will explode.So don't judge your fear is right or wrong, see them the truth.They are to remind you, you feel so strongly.

Scorpio's control is "virtue", but also, urgent control is also comes from your urgent desire.So obsessed with control, manipulation and seduce you.Accordingly you realize your ability to influence others, even temporarily, control them, eventually whether the other party still love you, you will be out of control.Need to have confidence to do "let go", especially you are so strong want to get.But "letting go" can let you get more of what you really want.True intimacy needs to "trust", believe in life, believe in yourself, believe they can survive in the storm of emotion and passion, desire also able to obtain satisfy.

The remaining three sentences is pain response to suffering.In fact, we do need others to survive, the interpersonal relationship to improve our survival, because we are the small cell of the society.Scorpio is to help us survive trust, combined with our resources, to create a better life!But, if your partner has rebelled against me?If they roll off my money?The expression of hidden fear, dare not believe anyone.This is a dark speculation to others, also is a kind of self evaluation reaction, fear of rejection.This "all or nothing" attitude of refuse, such as the "or dry to me, or is my enemy" is another test, to determine who is trustworthy.(The zodiac /astro/)

Basically, Scorpio is the best friend, is also the worst enemy.Be sure to remember that losing the trust of the Scorpio friends really loss is very large.They will save you in distress, to help you get rid of the enemy, to accompany you through low tide.Also, they will force you to go to confront their destructive behavior, because they need you to live!Therefore, all scorpios will remember, you help through the most difficult journey of all the constellations, - because "you know the taste of suffering, you don't want to lose any of the people you care about!"Accept your deep passion in nature, learn to fall in love with this trait, the others will fall in love with you.