: Saturn, lack of frustration, vs a big success

Saturn, in a traditional, she is "stars", will create the fate of the "bad" for us, one side of her character is "contraction, the lack of control, depression, frustration,", just listen to the words of Saturn is hard enough, so the feeling of hate, really don't think we are pitiful fate?How long does it have to fend off the feeling, why can't let people taste was ten thousand people feeling of success?

So Saturn's a coffret, we will feel the life category is heavy pressure, or we feel has always been the position of "cold water", it is hard to be successful, and especially in the childhood to adolescence.Saturn is like a very strict teacher, she will not praise you much homework to do good, she will only be one you do not good place, need you endless correction, progress, and it's hard to tell you that this is wrong, there won't be the second answer.Tough very cold?

When it comes to cold, lack and frustrations, these feelings, don't know how familiar for you, or more strange, or how afraid of those feelings, but for me this life SaturnScorpioPeople, but also in the symbol of the "own" five, this kind of feel useless, the feeling of "good enough" has been accompanied by I grew up, whether learning phase or now, I also put yourself in the position of the "failure".While reading books as a child is not bad, but my family and teachers tend to achievement, personality is compared with brother, invincible brother never tried to take an examination of the second,Have a classConcentration and clever, so I'm still a failure.Play music as a child, is very hard to practice, but I don't know why the performance is often at the time of blast, was how humiliating don't want to see the light;10 years ago entrance examination failed to fail again, even if later in associate degree success, finally can also into the highest institution of higher learning, the so-called graduation grades but also do not break, but I don't know why the shadow of the "failure", to now also didn't have to put down, still felt "a little different with other students, each grantloan bills would remind me this old memories;More in the social sense of frustration, I can not do without "artificial low university graduates", "can't afford to buy a floor after 80" the identity, this kind of feel unable to feel very grinding, also I can't live in the present moment, originally this frustration can kill yourself in mind.

These frustrating experience no big or small, anyhow is those events can let a person is "upset", let a person feel cold, no one appreciate.Actually this kind of frustration and deeper fear cold, is afraid of being abandoned, loneliness, world not to be loved, so keep overcompensation hope can satisfy others or society to their expectations.My pupils, they even a kindergarten class, for "test is not ideal kingdom of small" sense of frustration, they actually don't know how good the elementary, successfully entered the whether will be more happy, just think success can get more parental love, they can satisfy their expectations, so that it will not be abandoned;Crying to say "don't want to read well to book", in fact he didn't know what is meant by "read well to book", obviously these concepts is an adult to give him, "well to reading" is the failure, will be abandoned, so as not to be loved, it is the most terrible consequences "failure".Mom and dad, on the other hand, is also not clear that schools have much good, is it really suitable for their children, just to get into the head will be more than a halo, to affiliate "successful parents", being than shadow suddenly filled, feel the child could not be abandoned by society in the future, be looked down upon, to fight for a seat to social identity.

Failure, be looked down upon, abandoned the cold feeling really bad, if not, just to fill this kind of feeling and to try to pursue the external things, maybe for short time successful, and the approval of the people can make you feel better, but Saturn's "evil" is that no matter how much you applause, inner fear of "failure" still linger, even hard to make money, used to get a higher position, hard to study, do anything to fill the places they feel inadequate, but the result is, of course, the bottom of my heart is empty and fears remain, and will be more and more, more and more can't get rid of the shadow of "afraid to back".The energy of the Hong Kong society with compensation, everyone is trying to "fight", because the bottom of my heart has a "fail" belief.

Before I work in the port of this research, ask yourself to all things, is also very into, for himself to crack into Hong Kong affairs, set foot on half a little proud political stage, after all, can look at the works of their hands in the news, was sitting in front of the meeting are often in the "star", even if you don't know anything about digital can "get weigh in hand," head "successful" aura is really make people feel good.But intrinsic kinetic energy just to want to others feel I "success", also thought work to faint dark heaven and earth can be evaded "insufficient feel failure," feeling, although all boss, colleague praised our own efforts, but I don't know why the heart of "the fear of failure" is also more and more, may know deeply for the ring suppress how many, in between those from unreasonable government piss out of people to remind me how many emotions has not been released, and participate in too much to let his mind can't stop feeling is worse than bear frustration, more lonely, the Numbers I am spend much more time and trying to write down, once the wrong consequences really unbearable, these are all can't let go of the fear and distress, and really began to worry when one day will lose all the applause, the inner "failure", once exposed to the front, I only will be more can't accept "back to prototype" themselves, and I really hold for this aura also continue to lie to your feelings.

Until last year began to smell the smell of Saturn and frustration to the peak, even if I changed the runway, engaged in this kind of "social core outside of the industry", can't get the applause is its "left", that kind of cold and frustration, will also feel abandoned feeling really very suffered, but now there isn't any external things to fill, so feel naked.But at this time will go to pursue, reviews have been afraid of being abandoned, afraid of cold, afraid to face their own sense of responsibility, say a voice with it at the time of release of emotion by the "I'm sorry, I love you", to embrace it, feel it, it will slowly the shackles of the mind constantly giving out their "failure", for your love will make warm from the bottom of my heart, and this for their own certainly don't need anything from the outside world, only need to come to the center, even without the approbation of the external, beyond fill an inner void, that can really play their director, understand that "failure" gift to my best, because even in the face of frustration, will still be in love to complete the purpose of life, beyond the self expansion, excess demand compensation "defects", this is from the heart out of self-confidence, also has a lot of applause, they have simply never lack, sincerely say thank you for all the past experience, also appreciate those who let oneself "frustrated" actually is a concern, remember it was moved to eye wet now.

Even now I am not what famous astrologers, are not what great writer, but a tutor teach "the chicken", Hong Kong and Taiwan in the library staff, but this kind of "certainly meet again" feeling never tried before Saturn return, also no longer listen to what others say, what pro well pro, now also early taste of Saturn "will eventually bring the most wonderful gift" exactly what is one thing, this kind of feeling really sweet beyond expression.(The zodiac /astro/)

Saturn given responsibility, a lot of people think oneself for parents, children, the boss, the boss and others responsible for, but the most important thing is how to take responsibility for their original, a man who knows how to grow responsible person for life, even if no one appreciate to finish their task, that is to oneself to others the best responsibility at the same time.If, on the other hand, because of the desire to get others' recognition and do many things, not take responsibility for their own body, feelings, and that wasn't true, just of overcompensation yearn for love;If indulge yourself, "nobody appreciate anyway, so I what all don't do" it too waste of life every minute.Within the Saturn Scorpio's year, feel the fear loses all "is inevitable, if you are taking the money, love, family, work fine, all kinds of frustration and pressure, no solution, even did a lot, at this time is really just chart of Saturn to remind you: take a deep breath, and went to look at yourself, accept yourself, Saturn's gift also can be found at this time, also from the heart of self-confidence, abundance and the beginning of the journey to success.