For astrological consultation, and friends, or are learning astrology in the face of the chart, you are most interested in part, are generally not love, career, money, few people would ask "family", even if related to family issues, are how spouses, children, and so on, little one will deliberately to ask their parents, brothers and sisters of the relationship.

The neglected "family" part, but is often a core driving force behind each issue, or the root of the problem.On the chart, the fourth/ten palace, is on behalf of the parents' house, and the axis of the bottom of the zenith - day, like the whole axis that the chart, you can imagine it into a tree, then at the end of day is the root, zenith is the top of the tree, and the rest of the chart, is this the tree branches.Although the roots are hidden part, is not so conspicuous, branches and leaves no flower and fruit so attraction, but if there was a problem in the root, the tree will not be able to get nutrition;The root rot, the tree will fall.

Family/father experience

Implications of the 4th house very much, but the most core part, is the origin of "where do we come from, and I".Stretch out, it is family, ancestors, family heredity, childhood experience, and we feel the atmosphere in the home, mood to learn, and these have shaped our inner security, emotional reactions and inner world of private.In four palace of Mars, for example, can understand, he grew up, always with a noisy atmosphere, competition state of mind, even a kind of violent atmosphere, so competition with other people and defend their point of view, and even anger, is rooted in the people's heart of hearts, also became his treat people doing things in the future of a kind of instinct.

The 4th house is the root of the entire chart and pillar, so also is the source and impetus to different parts of our life.From the first palace, we started to build "who am I", the second is "I have what", "I thought" is the third palace, the fourth house, is the feeling of "I".These are important in a person in the growth experience of course, of course, these are from his family, the influence of the environment, especially their parents.

From father's experience, the fourth house and the sun is also on behalf of the father, the fourth house is from the family (either physical or personality, emotion, blood), and the sun's hero journey, life goals, more often from the father, for example, hopes to achieve certain goals, make some achievements, the subconscious mind driving force may be trying to get his father's identity, or inheritance dad/family some of the will.In addition, the sun for self-expression, nor the likelihood would be affected by father's experience, such as the one in the sunGeminiMan, he may think dad is often running around and not often in the side, but also like to learn, so he also learned the father this part, become the one aspect of his own personality.

Tenth house/mother experience

As for the tenth house, representing one's career, achievement orientation, contribution to the world, and social image, but it's also on behalf of his mother's house.The two seemingly goes and things, why is representative of the same house?Originally when I was a child mom to take us out to see what kind of world, to our expectations, tend to be in the future we want to get achievement in the world.Or have some sort of expectations, their mother failed to do it, often cast in children, hope we can help her to achieve them.This influence is imperceptible, but is profound, early planted seeds in the subconscious.

Planets, the moon represents my mother, she is our the first to establish close relationship, even in her belly, we already feel her emotions, and herpregnancyWhen in the atmosphere, also became a part of our emotions.Mother gives us nourish, she take care of our way, also became the cornerstone of our emotion, security, anything in the future, involving parts of mood, emotion, will reflect these mothers experience.A Capricorn moon, for example, the mother in her mind, may be a more alienated, indifference, attaches great importance to the achievement of people;And this person's emotional response, would prefer back pressure, not showing emotions, even inherited from the mother heart some burden.

So the zenith and nadir is the backbone of the chart, the sun and the moon is the most important two planets, is our ego and inner, the two sides of the Yin and Yang, also on behalf of the parents and related experience.We can see the simple direct clues - self and life goals and vitality;And inner world, emotion, nourishing, are inseparable from the influence of parents and family, and also shaped our ideas, belief systems, values, and thus lead to interpersonal relationships, relationships, career issues.

Family and all kinds of life issues

No matter which issues we want to know about their life, pushed down from the surface of the problem, to finally return to a person's childhood experience, the relationship between the parents.Some examples, a lot of people care about love, on the chart, we can't watch the position of the sun and the moon, which is both parents experience, also on behalf of our inner sides of Yin and Yang, and the nature of the "relationship", and our relationship in the eyes of parents, we get along with their experience, often in the guanzhong partner to repeat.For example, a man by the violence in childhood (hades that hades four palace, the moon and Mars have phase, drop point for Aries), after be brought up in any sense about how to choose partners of tenderness, in the end is also easy to experience the "violence" in the relationship of the problem, because in his experience, the noisy atmosphere in the home, the parents of his abuse, like computer programming, input of his subconscious.The childChildren tend to experience equal love from parents, family, because that is his first intimate experience, is the inevitable of blood patrimony.

For another example, someone in trouble on the job, with his superiors, he often feel superior in selective, unable to meet his demands.It can also be back to his childhood experience, because a person relationship with boss, for seniors, the extension of the hereditary characters, as a child, of course, also includes the parents.Assuming that this man's Uranus in the tenth house, for him, to his elders feeling, it is cold, hot and cold, elusive, and so was confused about what to do;When he came out, it would be easy to attract this type of boss, or rather, no matter who he met, always felt that his boss is the person of this type.

The family system arrangement

Family, parents' influence, although is the childhood, is like a computer program branded in our deep heart, when we grow up, this program is still in operation, sometimes even pain, questions, problems, what can do?How to face these exert a subtle influence on the past and experience?How to reduce the ogre lock some unconscious restriction, improve the awareness and develop the real independence and freedom?As astrologers, everyone in the learning in the process of interpretation chart and know yourself, may also have these questions;Or when you help others interpretation chart, each other also may ask "how do I do that?Single from the role of astrologers, of course, we is go to preach Buddhism and chart, assists the parties to raise awareness and self, then he may have to look for other treatment or improvement method, astrologers don't have to be the role of adjunct therapy.However, these issues from when I started learning astrology, finally has been in the brain, has been looking for can help yourself or case method to deal with these issues.Karma, access to the family system arrangement (hereinafter referred to as the home row), found that this is a can coordinate chart, to assist the parties in the face of method, and acceptance of different issues in life.

First introduce what is family arrangement, this also is have important effects on mental astrology psychologist Sigmund Freud (session with Sigmund Freud) and Jung (Carl Jung), they found a person to get along with your parents as a child, can affect the heartHave a haircutShow every detail of their theory, become the psychological interpretation of the basic fundamental of astrology.In modern times, a woman American psychotherapist, tyre (Virginia Satir 1916-1988), the development of the family treatment mode.She found that in handling a case, a one-on-one meeting with the parties concerned, and invited family members to attend the meeting at the same time, there will be much of a difference in.Clearly in the separate treatment, has reached a certain result, but one to join the other family members, prior to the effective, and establishes the relations, can be completely torn down.She found that the original one's state of mind, the question, not just belong to a person, but by the entire family/family system, is influenced by the interaction between members, there are some hidden power.

Haining case, Germany (Bert Hellinger) will be the further development of family therapy, become a "family" system alignment.

Operation way is that the case put forward some problems/issues, not necessarily to the real family member, but in the present participants, case, please get on behalf of the parents, family members, and he wants to deal with issues.Although those representatives are strangers, even to the case without understanding, but in the process of arrangement, each representative, can present some of the family relationship, mood, especially the power hidden in the whole system, and then you can make a reconciliation in the present moment.

Example, hypotheses proposed continuation of previous cases violence by his father as a child and grew up had unexpectedly is always looking for partner violence is, because in his "program", violent = = love his father.In the power field arrangement, can let the wrestler, emotion thoroughly, let the case to see the hidden power, at the same time fully express feelings about father's (such as anger and feel hurt), and then in the reconciliation with his father, of experience behind the flow of love (how to arrange and to reconciliation, is arranged teacher professional, isn't it).When these things are completely present, emotional expression, completely junction was solved, the program can also be rewritten, case can more freedom to develop real belongs to own life independently, rather than live in the past negative experiences tied the trapped under the lock.In addition, among the family arrangement, one of the important law, is to learn to respect their parents, ancestors, and their own family.From the perspective of astrology, if we can do the respect and acceptance, as well as for their fourth house irrigation, as root become solid, can also natural plant out more abundant fruit.

Most of the time, in the process of astrological consultation, we give a thorough analysis of the subject;Or in the study of astrology journey, we have more understanding and awareness to himself, but always can not help but ask next, know what?What can I do?How to integrate?A seven palace of hades, to know their fear of relations, handling, control of will alone, it's hard to really put down the fear;Can row of in the home, the related situation, again, went down in that when faced with, acceptance, settlement, reforming family order, to balance, is more easy to do the real transformation.(The zodiac /astro/)

In this two or three years of experience, I try to combine astrology and the home row, with astrological maps, raise awareness and understanding, and then to home help case specifically to scale and integrate, find effect is quite good, also more thoroughly.Is probably at the "root", "where, where is the solution, a tree can be relatively easy to grow, blossom and bear fruit.