Cooling mama of constellation female after marriage

"Cold mother" this hot word, from the mothers love after a "cooling off" - even to love child education way, don't always keep affectionate mother image, is not to unconditionally pay too much, give the child too much easy things, as a result, "even if the love, also want to love so deeply;Even if the pain, also want to obscure "pain is often ruthlessly to teach children to face cruel cold 'belief in life.After marriage, of course, the 12 signs of mother education child's way is different, some harsh, some warmth, so, who will be married mom cold woman?Look at it!

The first name:virgomother

Cold treatment way of education, can make children more perfect

Natural disposition is rigorous, the pursuit of perfect virgo, mom is quite strict with themselves, and after marriage, children gradually replaced by yourself, and then into the center of gravity of the life, virgo mom will take out a large part of time and energy, use in children education.Just, virgo mother pursues is "cold mother education", because they know that too much love for a child, will let the child to develop willful, arrogant, just me and a series of bad habits.Them towards the society in the future, encounter setbacks and tribulations will likely recover from spoiled so accustomed to them that their problems are made by parents to help solve, the in the mind to bear ability is becoming more and more low.So, virgo mother love children but never spoiled children, but let children to grow up;Don't do everything for the child, but let the child to assume their own share of the responsibility;Return the right to make mistakes to children, to correctly guide, children can understand some truth, in these hard to grow up faster.

Second:Capricornmother

Are the essence of education, is deep and passionate love

Married Capricorn mom will give children to create a good living environment as much as possible, but they will never spoil children, because, Capricorn mother nature be fond of discipline, so to the child is bound to be the same or even higher requirements.But is not to say that Capricorn mom is forever is a pair of the "mother of stern appearance, rational and calm they will always keep a clear head, when children have unreasonable demands, decisively rejected, and seriously attach to make the child understand, help him distinguish right and wrong, gradually cultivate the habit of he abide by the rules;Children performance good, small achievements, must be eagerly praise, but the child made a mistake (especially the nature of the serious error), also must be to harsh criticism or punishment.Such cold treatment for education, the child may not understand, think mom is not enough to love yourself, only the to own request, require that, in fact, in Capricorn mom "cruel", "tenderness", behind the hidden is a love of children more deep and strong cold education can cultivate children strong and independent personality, after be brought up to better adapt to the society.

The third:Taurusmother

The future will encounter many setbacks, to advance ready to take the hit

Taurus mom and have a dual role as a mother and a strict mother, but the identity of a strict mother may account for a larger proportion.Taurus mother nature anxiety are heavier, they worry the children education problems, even foresee the child grow up process may encounter some setbacks and trouble, therefore, believe that everything is set, the Taurus BuYuZeFei mother, according to the characteristics of children early developed distinctive parenting skills, and practice.They use a strict attitude towards children, even with setbacks to hone a child, a cold mama attitude completely.Take such cruel education for children, because rational Taurus mom know that society is very cruel, subjected to a lot of, have to prepare in advance, in order to let the child to adapt to the demands of the society, learn to survive all kinds of rules followed to grow, and only to him in a rational attitude strict requirements, strict training, to make the child lifelong benefit, therefore, let children endure in advance (in Taurus, the mother's eyes, not even own a variety of cold treatment), it's not a bad.

Fourth:Sagittariusmother

Respect for the independence of the children, in order to succeed in the future

Sagittarius mothers after marriage, is responsible for the family, but also have a lot of respect for independence, each family member, especially children.Although they enjoy the equal dialogue with children and communicate with children in heart, but at the same time, Sagittarius mothers more shows is "cold mother" side - exercise as the authority of the mother, let the children not because they like a good friend with him, play with, and let themselves.More major, Sagittarius mother thought compare halfback, in their opinion, children although young, but psychological age cannot lag the physiological age, they should grow up hone their will, let oneself become strong inside, for example, when children are first to make a mistake, must have been severely criticized him, but next time, if he still made the same mistake next time, then don't criticize him, but "neglect" of his mistake, wait him to shift, this virtually to give him the pressure, and then began to self criticism), but the goal is only one, "a strict mother out of the name"!

Fifth:Aquarius:mother

Cold treatment, let the child's body and mind to break through the traditional education of cage (dream)

Rational Aquarius mom deeply understand that the child is to be with a mature attitude, toward into into social this big furnace, spoiled child in place would be at a loss as to society, and the complicated world not condone these wayward.So, Aquarius mom will not abuse a mother's love, delay the healthy growth of children, patience and careful enough of them, will break through the books on the doctrine theory, according to their own characteristics to choose reasonable way of education.In order to let the children in the future competition to dominate, let the children suffered setbacks in advance is a good idea.Then, in advocating self, intellectual independence of Aquarius mom several times under consideration, "cold treatment" this overturns the traditional mother image of the education mode.Such rigorous management, may ignore some psychological feeling of children (family care, social security), but for Aquarius mom, this does not prevent yourself in a different way to the hot love through to the end!