libraThe competitiveness and advice

Libra: communication power, good at expression

Libras are finesse flexible social masters, in the workplace, a person's ability to communicate and coordinate ability is particularly important, and just, libra in these two aspects ability is not bad!Complicated workplace relationships, cut constantly also disorderly, a lot of people for this headache, libra can easily deal with their relations with the people around him, also can at some time resolve contradictions and misunderstanding with people around you, have to let a person admire.

[this] is the best quality in the workplace?

Libra very articulate, who is the master of social network, by virtue of their three inches golden tongue can mix are flawed in any circuit.Their own, of course, also have abundant knowledge, even met they never come into contact with knowledge, they can also subtly change the subject.In addition, they will be able to handle complex well workplace relationships, and even can become one and the people around, make the atmosphere of the surrounding harmony.

Advice 1: prevent too care about others' eyes

Libra people pay attention to the characteristics of interpersonal relationship will be more special psychological mode, namely too care about how others think myself, what will happen to the opinions of others, will not affect the current events or work, so instead, in the usual work in their own strength and the individual will in the team is very easy to be ignored or despised, naturally, will appear in the execution of the work and decision-making for the sake of others or work related external environment such as the other company, business involved in the third or fourth party and opinion to change yourself.

If the person is relatively strong, such as large partners, or such as consistently strong colleaguesLeo、AriesLibra people are particularly prone to one by the other party or partner to pull away from the runway, bit by bit away from their own career path, causing unnecessary time and work experience of "consistency" data loss.

The other is because too care about others and to serve others, but at the expense of his time and energy.Run again, if not by the other forces, because too care about, in the psychological contradictions, weigh repeatedly, let yourself in vain missed the best decision-making time and opportunity.

Still have a kind of situation, is the person to maintain itself, and the characteristics of play better, and in the workplace is everywhere on the edge, to make friends of different industries, and give full play to the Venus noble qualities brought his many development opportunities, Venus is in itself exquisite pursuit of be fond of, when the good chance of coming, because there are people, they are more likely to choose two places at once, the energy to try, so that the original work to bring instability hidden trouble, also let the person in her not familiar with, once noble exactly to disappear or appear what accident, will bring us a lot of mess and even serious consequences to pick up.

Advice 2: and characteristics under the interpersonal relationship

And the characteristics of good though, make the person take advantage of all interpersonal relationships, the accumulated contacts under the rapid development of society today, one of the important hidden wealth but his negative effects are also obvious, is that there is no definite view, of course, not a libra is not assertive people, just because they pay attention to the relationship between each other's ideas and opinions, and the selective question comes, unified and my will that don't have to say, if and his opinion is not consistent, they will choose the soft ground in the first place to the next, and on the external view, like follow each other to do.

Actually, libra is not independent, is not without ambition, but he choose to be slow, given after weighing all the pros and cons of abnormal firm personal will, so the contrary, they are very strong.And decided to need time, maybe it's because libra haven't idea, is in search for his opinion in the process of the weigh the pros and cons, but in order not to destroy the harmonious and mouth promised to have to do it, it may also be because people's psychological and simply to suddenly against each other and not hide their true thoughts, but along with the development of things step by step, you are no expression, but the other has to do.

, once the person take a decision, or in touch their bottom line, or having the person is a single force such as the company's internal multiple interest groups are competing for the person department or resource, once walk to the end, the person will appear how is not appropriate, unable to weigh the state of all relations, forcing up the person must decide, the basic element of style began to action, this time the person will rebel, namely after the parts mentioned above that abnormal firmly be yourself, it also means that destroyed the harmonious interpersonal relationship, if one to one, against a party, if it is a pair of wandering in the many forces, that is all to offend, but at this moment, for the moment the things work, projects, and is not important, self-interest is important.

So, from the view of microcosmic, libra relationships to late must be down, but the person must also have other relationships, they have is a man who would make friends, this will also have the other, so in terms of macroscopic, they are still people, good at communication, and lots of friends.

But such personality traits to trouble the person, because you always want to seek equilibrium in the environment, and the harsh reality tells us that most of the things is not for scale, as long as in the different interest groups and the position, you are the enemy, so place clear position to get relaxed as early, otherwise, the more don't want to upset people, the more upset people, how could favor and truth in the world not interlace together a collision, how can have a perfect solution to please all the people?

Advice: stop and cause confusion of human relations

Libra value and psychological characteristics, whether the above mentioned cases, such as too care about others and be an accomplice under duress, such as in order not to spoil relations in the subjective or forced to crack, excluding in the later part of the person personal idea to perform self determination not to say, at the time of early, in other people's view, the person will give others bad impression and features of the good.But, in the complex, the Nemesis surrounding the office environment, often make a party is to make enemies of the other party, since hostile struggle, position is black and white, so it will bring the person virtually little incident.

In addition, in order to get by on the face, the person is very generous to interpersonal acceptance, even if the other party reputation is spotted, they will not make like other signs the crowd has a clear attitude likes and dislikes, simply ignore it completely is not a conversation, also because of this, will bring difficult negative relationships.

Again, pay attention to interpersonal relationship and the characteristics of "relationship" as the characteristics of the profession is very easy to hook, such as headhunting, public relations, intermediary trade, and so on professional industry, these also happens to be the person right from the field, but for "and" character cannot let oneself strictly avoid negative or contacts who obviously flawed, thus to their job, career or other investment, business and other fields to bring considerable hidden trouble, some even will involve legal issues related to may.So recognize that elegant and handling interpersonal relationship is not where to eat, don't hurt.